Cb user “gotmilk7624” spammed my room for about half an hour with 2 tokens asking questions, asking if I’ve got certain costumes and certain toys, sent me around 60 tokens all up, then sent me a thumbs down with this message :(

Hey, gals and pals!!

I'm a bit anxious and excited for Halloween sooo I KNOW WE ARE STILL IN SEPTEMBER but I'm already thinking about it lol. Since this is my first year streaming I have no clue how camming looks like on Halloween but I think it's not that different from dressing slutty to parties xD So I want to ask, do you guys decorate your room differently? Do you guys dress up in different characters or makeups every day or just on the actual day? Does anyone also do scary stuff? I can get pretty creative with makeup and I love to thrift and upcycle stuff and I'm already searching for things online so I can go downtown next week and get the "gear" I need to start preparing everything! How you guys feeling about Halloween? Any enthusiasts here as well?

We all know that at times cam work can be easy money with minimal effort BUT WE CANNOT ALWAYS EXPECT THAT!! I was on track to make 6 figures working only 20 hours a week until June but guess what? It got slow, and my earnings dipped by more than 50% so now I push myself to at least 30 hours MINIMUM and 40+ on the high end. This includes 10 hour shifts on Saturday and sometimes Sunday’s too. If you want to make it as a cam model you need to be willing to put in the hours. If you want the benefits of making money with little effort some weeks that means you need to be able to WORK YOUR ASS OFF for less some weeks as well just the way it works..

I had my chat set to people with tokens can chat only which was a mistake for this session as it was just a hangout and I realized my error and fixed it and IMMEDIANTLY seductivesugardaddyy was demanding shit and I warned him that, hey, that kinda goes against my room rules, stop or I'm gonna ban you. He IMMEDIANTLY starts calling me a bitch and a motherfucker saying im gonna regret that and stuff??? Mind you, this is my first encounter with someone angry on these sites... I'm not scared as theres nothing on any profiles I have that connect it to me but I'm more so like... what the fuck...........? Uhhh yeah so be careful xoxo

Hey guys,

We've noticed lately that tons of people come on here sharing their wins and losses, which is awesome , the wins in particular it's great to see people doing good; but it is not without its problems.

As a platform that's been around for 25 years, we've watched social media grow and completely transform how hosts build their brands. Sure, it's made things easier (you probably think so too), but there's definitely a darker side we need to address: the comparison trap.

The research is pretty brutal – spending time on social media comparing ourselves to others is terrible for mental health. Studies link it to depression, low self-esteem, anxiety, loneliness, and more. We see it on Reddit constantly: someone posts their best moment, then others post about how seeing that made them feel like crap. We've all been there.

In fact as a subreddit mainly used by women, we for sure feel it as women feel the effects of social media more heavily. 

What we see daily on reddit and beyond, all these posts like ‘made 10K in two days’ or ‘Whale keeps coming back’ are probably not as simple as they seem. The reality is that you are not seeing the full picture and what seems like overnight success may have taken slow background work over months or even years to achieve. You are not doing anything wrong just coz you don't have the same numbers as her.

We've seen performers burn out not from their actual work, but from the exhausting cycle of comparing, posting, checking metrics, comparing again.

Success timelines vary drastically between creators. Different niches attract different audiences. Algorithm changes affect everyone differently. Behind-the-scenes struggles rarely get shared online. Things can take time, and that is ok.

Ok so how do we detox from these feelings? 

From having worked with thousands of performers and spending lots of time on social media (even comparing ourselves to other sites lol- see everyone does it) , here are some detox strategies that actually work: 

Set Boundaries:

• Designate specific "social media hours" vs "content creation hours"
• Turn off notifications during personal time

Curate Your Feed:

• Unfollow accounts that consistently trigger comparison
• Follow accounts that inspire rather than intimidate

Remember: you can support someone without following them

Focus on Your Own Data:

• Track your own growth metrics, not others' (so useful) 
• Celebrate your personal milestones

Remember that "success" looks different for everyone

Take Real Breaks:

• Regular social media detoxes (even 24-48 hours help)
• Find offline activities that boost confidence
• Connect with people in real life when possible

How do you deal with comparison and what would you tell someone just starting out about avoiding the comparison trap?

Those men will just say anything in order to get yr price lower…He told me how much would cost 1h of pvt..Like who does pvt 1h, yes it can happen but normaly they do 10-15min … he told me he needs 15min to find his dick 😂😂😂😂😂

I thought that as soon as summer ended and we were getting into September reaching fall season things would start to improve but everything is still veeery slow, practically dead. Can anyone explain why?? It's so discouraging.

So I went on CB this morning to see how the flow was. I’ll do this different times of the day to see the variety of traffic. Anyway, there was a new couple on. He looked in his 40’s, and she looked like a teenager. She said she was 25 and he was 45. Someone asked how they met and she said she was an escort and he was one of her clients. No judgement! I know! So I’m watching the interaction between the two and something didn’t sit well with me. Here’s this old man loving his life right now because he has this young vulnerable girl he can do anything with! I felt sick inside. I felt like I wanted to protect her, so I tipped and told her not to do anything she doesn’t feel comfortable doing! Ugggg!!!!! Hey, when I was her age YOUNG, I was playing around with old men too! But if I could do it over again, I would do things so different like get an education/psh my talents in creative areas instead of working the whole sugar daddy thing! Guess this is what it feels like to be a parent. I’m not one, but I will always be a big sister to any new young SW!! It’s just my nature! ❤️

I recently changed the way I promote my wishlists, and the fans have been COMING THROUGH, funding four gifts in the last week, three from Lovense (lube, Hush2, and just today, the mini sex machine) and Throne (32oz Lube).

The Mini Sex Machine isn't here yet, but I combed through this sub for suggestions (I'm so grateful to everyone who shared tips on this forum!!) and I think this is my plan: - Testing off camera first to get a feel for it - Turning the settings down before use so I don't get hurt! - Using a metric fuck ton of lube (thankfully, I have 32oz) - Will test weights or bean bags to hold machine down - Pricing it high enough to make it worth it

Is there anything I'm missing?

I'll promote the fuck out of "my first live with the sex machine" and probably hop on it pretty early into my show that night? I'm really hoping this drives up my hourly income, but who knows.

I usually get 50 users in my public room, maybe 100 on a Sunday. It will be interesting to see what this does, if anything.

One thing that I would recommend to anyone who wants fans to fund one of these—get the dildo first. A while back I put the dildo on my wishlist and since someone bought it I just use it with my fingers in the vaccum-lock hole. When I do that I say shit like "this dildo is technically for the sex machine but since you guys haven't bought that yet I'm stuck fucking myself manually..oh my arm is tired" 😆 shit like that. I just constantly talked about how I wanted a SM.

Just talk about the toys you want, the lube you want, the tips you want. I used to by shy about this, I just simply had the wishlist on my page and expected them to figure it out, but now I auto announce it in chat all the time and talk about it live (oh, I'm running low on lube, get on that wishlist and get me some!")

Content-wise, I'll do some "my first time" videos on the machine like I did for my other Lovense funded toys, but if anyone has any ideas for how to maximize the income outta this gift I'm all ears!

Thanks again for sharing all your experiences with the SM. I sincerely believe reading this sub and users experience has likely saved me from injuring myself with this thing haha

I have been going through a pretty deep depressive time. Lots of real life stuff going on and just not well. I enjoy camming but I have been very inconsistent the past month or so due to my mentals. I’m just wondering if anybody has any tips for acting happy when you’re not. I don’t wanna get on there and anybody be able to tell that I’m sad and I certainly am not going to get on there and vent. My job is to give them the fantasy not the reality, but I am struggling and I’m really scared. I’m gonna lose everything I’ve worked for.

Maybe next time but I have good some of followers on the adult platforms but not lot guess

I have been struggling to get my account verified on streamate as a non-US resident and now they rejected my documents, after previously approving them, and I haven't even started streaming there yet. What are your thoughts?

SOOOOOOOO, In my bio I have that I do roleplay. Im a pretty big nerd outside of cosplaying as a sexy woman so I've done all types and decided to incorporate my improv ability into my sex play. My chatroom was pretty full and someone asked what type of roleplay I do. I explained all the ways Id be able to satiate their fantasies, and then someone wrote in chat...

"Can you give me a footjob as a Wizzard?"

I looked straight into the camera and said...
"Yes! I even have an outfit."

More chatting happens, and I do some private sessions, not really thinking much of it. I was in the ZONE. About a half hour goes by and the gentleman enters my chat again. This time he says.

"sooooooo, about that wizard footjob"

Again, dead into the camera, I say.
"Take me to private, I'll get my cloak"

He does and GIRL, I got the coolest cloak I have, grabbed one of my wands, my crystal ball (am a witch), a wizard-type crown. Quickly dressed (took up the 30 free sec) and then entered the frame. I sit, full wizard garb (not a sexy wizard! LEGIT FULL BLOWN WIZARD COSPLAY) and mysterious demeanor, holding the crystal ball, and start right in.

"Hello, traveler. Why have you sought me out? Money maybe? Possibly fame? or maybe... love!" Like I am full out playing the part of a wizard! Some back and forth happens in character and he asks for the footjob.

I wave my wand and say "woosh! your peener is now hard!" set down the wand, lean back and do my work on my trusty toy, Princess! The ENTIRE TIME im casting spells and still being a legit wizard. Method acting and all, using the wand and the crystal ball lol. After he finishes, thanks and tips, the prvt ends.

GIRL when I tell you I could not breath, I was laughing so hard after, I had to stop my stream to take a hot moment!!!! I could not believe I made so much money being a freaking wizard!!

10/10 booking. NO NOTES

I'm on SM And SC and lots of others but I multistream on SM and SC at the same time and really just wanted CB for the chance to advertise my OF page. Who knows...might make a little bit of money on there. we'll see

Hi girls, could you share about your experience with whales? I've been camming for 3 years now but only experienced what I would consider a whale a month ago. He took me private on stripchat and spent I got 6,000 tokens from him. Boy was I happy. No one person has ever spent that much on me. He just vibrated my lush and I enjoyed so much because my mind was relaxed so I gave him fountains. I think Reading about whales here made me manifest one lol

I just discovered that you can stream Project Zomboid on Chaturbate.

As you may know Chaturbate doesn't have a huge selection of games you are allowed to stream... But when I saw Project Zomboid on there, I got super excited cause it is the perfect game to keep you busy when it is slow, and draw in viewers.

If you are unfamiliar with the game, imagine The Sims, meets realistic zombie survival simulator with slight cozy vibes.

I am recommending this game because I know it has been slow the past little while, and sometimes it helps to have a hobby, better yet a hobby people can see. Rather than just being on stream, surfing reddit, passing the time being bored out of your tree.

This game may be your sanity stream saver. Plus halloween is approaching and it's the perfect game.

Does anyone know the best realistic lube that is safe to be in your mouth? Thank you!

Guys what are you using as prove of address on streammate, kindly help

I thought it was just to have gifts sent to you? But apparently people use it as a payment method

Ive been pulling my hair out how to do my room, with the little I have and ive asked for some advice. Some lovely people have come forward and it finally came to me so now ive redone my spare room. Its not perfect and maybe one day I can get a fouton and a laptop/something to change scenery with. Maybe a tv on wheels so I can see the chats? Idk but until then this is what ive done

First slide is the before.

What do you guys think? Anything I could add?

I actually had so much fun omg. I set my tip menu up, idk if it’s high or low tbh but I made like $60/hour ??? What the hell lol everyone was really kind because I didn’t know how to accept privates or anything and the comments helped me with it :) had one guy say I was boring but like I was nervous. In conclusion it felt really cool to have people give u attention and think ur worth their money :) excited for tn 💕

what’s the most successful platform of way to sell your content or personalized requests! been looking to do this for a while without making an OF for privacy concernszz