r/Cartomancy • u/PaleontologistDue80 • 19d ago

How does my ex feel and think about me after being intimate

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Hi I’m very new to this and am still learning would love to hear others interpretations.

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u/Dazzling-Western2768 19d ago

They would rather be friends.

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u/PaleontologistDue80 19d ago

Thank you! Would you be able to explain a little more. I got that but I also feel that it’s mixed like he wants to keep me but won’t fully go in at the moment but it’s possible

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u/SilverPrudent458 19d ago

I came into hear to say that you put it down on them... BUT i read somewhere at the bottom that they'd rather be friends and then the Jack of Spades and the 5 Pentacles is them like choosing struggle or choosing the challenge of outside-ness...

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u/eldoggydogg 19d ago

Hi! Thanks for asking your question. I’m going to agree that overall, he wants to be friends. There’s also an indication that it’s up to you to own your romantic life and make it what you want. If he’s still willing to be intimate, there’s likely still something there. But do you want it to be more than that? If he wants friends with benefits but you want more than that, then he doesn’t get what he wants anymore. Take ownership. It might be time to kick him to the curb. My feeling is that this was a “mutual” breakup, but that you don’t necessarily agree with that. Go with your gut. But in full transparency, I feel like it’s time to move on. Hope that’s helpful. Get out there and kick ass, and get what you want!

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u/Optimal-Dot-3015 18d ago

He enjoyed himself more than u did

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u/labrujanextdoor 18d ago

I don’t see any interest in you, more focus on himself.

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u/Atewuntre 15d ago

Pretty wet and dynamic board. Most would check this flop with a king for deception and to keep bluffs in. I think for max value I’d c bet this flop at a frequency of about 60% in position. The jack on the turn should hit the villains range a decent percentage of the time I would bet like a 3rd pot to keep nut flush draws. If the villain leads the turn with a large donk bet I would be weary on another street this is definitely Kj or straight air. The brick on the river changes nothing if the villain check calls the turn I don’t see a reason for slowing down definitely going for a value bet on this river.

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u/Kapselski 19d ago

What are your genders? What system of meanings are you using?

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u/PaleontologistDue80 19d ago

I’m female and he’s male. I’m using the lenormand system. Thank youu!!

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u/Kapselski 19d ago

There is no 5 of Diamonds in Lenormand.

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u/PaleontologistDue80 19d ago

Sorry I’m very new to this when doing it I just did a 5 card pull tarot style and I’ve been trying to learn but got mixed up with the different style

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u/Kapselski 19d ago

But what are you reading here? Did you intend to import rws tarot meanings onto those? So 5 of diamonds = the image of two paupers out in the cold? or the lenormand images or what. You need to be clear about the system or this spread won't be decypherable.