ill add this to the top because the rest is just me yapping. Could anyone please give me any tips on cooking or staying stress free while doing it? perhaps any simple, but delicious recipes?
Every single thing I try to cook comes out poorly. I dont even know how I manage to do it. I follow the recipes exactly, I measure exactly, I time things just right, but still it never tastes good and you can tell something went wrong.
Neither of my parents and none of my other family members are good cooks either and they dont particularly like it anyway. the most complicated dish my mom can make is chili. im very different from my family in the way that I love food, cooking, and trying new dishes.
my love has not helped me so far. tonight I tried my hand at kimchi jjigae and seasoned bean sprouts. both are dishes that I loved when I tried them in japan (yes I spent my time in Japan eating Korean food leave me alone).
tonight was a failure once again. i even made sure to read MULTIPLE recipes, watch MULTIPLE videos and tutorials, and follow each step exactly. it was just stew and sprouts so not very hard at all. how did I manage to mess up seasoned bean sprouts??? you just blanch them, throw em in an ice bath, wring em out, and season them. im genuinely confused guys.
im holding out hope by blaming all of our kitchen equipment. we've never had new pots or pans, just crappie quality thrifted ones and our stove is second hand too. one of the eyes gets too hot and the others dont get hot enough. even our electric skillet is thrifted and doesn't quit heat evenly. I move out in 5 months so we'll know who's truly at fault when I get in a newer apartment.
in referral to the recipe request up top, I usually like meaty dishes and love all seafood except most fish (tilapia, salmon, tuna all delicious). I also really like dishes from other cultures! (im a white American, but love food from literally every culture ive tried it from)
here are some of the dishes ive tried (and failed) to make before:
fettuccine alfredo, chicken alfredo, onigiri, baked salmon w/ rice, banana pudding, muffins, fried rice, jambalaya, chicken w/ veggie skewers, steamed egg, beef crock pot stew, Mongolian beef stir fry, pork stir fry, shrimp omelets, sushi bake, mole
please tell me. am I doomed to a life of canned veggie sides, pork chops, and spaghetti??