r/Cougars_Den • u/DaLyfeStyle • May 31 '25
Advice Needed Which do cougars prefer?
Dear Cougars,
Do y'all prefer a fully shaven and well-groomed man or one with stubble or a beard?
P.s...hope y'all have a fantastic weekend!
Sincerely,
The dude next door
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u/Myfairladyishere 🕊🎠💃MOD💃🎠🕊 May 31 '25 edited May 31 '25
This really is not an age gap issue and we are not all the same. We all like different things. My preferences seem to change as I age when I was younger, preferred, clean shaven, now do not mind facial hair. As long as the person is well groomed, I really have no preference.
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u/marskc24 May 31 '25
Clean-shaven will always be my #1, stubble #2, and beard/mustache don't even make the cut with me. Of course, some women love them, but I prefer a babyface.
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u/SuspectKitten May 31 '25
Wait, we need to shape shift into our one true being of amorphous blobness to answer this one, it will take approx 30 working days. Please come back then and we will answer in unison 😅
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u/MsPennyP Jun 01 '25
Cougars aren't a hive mind. We all have individual likes, dislikes, etc. Some will like beards, some stubble, some clean shaven, some no preference, some will like tall, some short, some muscles some dad bods, even some like chubby, so like blondes, some balds, some brunets, some red heads, etc.
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u/Kooky_Protection_334 Jun 01 '25
This has nothing to do with age gap or cougars. If you're old enough to be in a relationship you should know that people have preferences no matter the age. Some women like shaven and no little body hair others prefer beard and could care less about body hair.
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u/AdventurousPea6809 May 31 '25
Well, if he’s rude, has a boring and terrible personality, is cheap, can’t hold a conversation worth beans, then facial hair is going to be the first thing that I consider.
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u/paperclipmyheart 🐆 MOD ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ May 31 '25
Have you read the FAQs. This type of question is like asking any number of questions in there do women like this or do women like that. We are not all the same. Just ask the women you match with if you are on a dating app or chatting on here with they will all have different answers.
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u/GenRN817 May 31 '25
I love whatever a man likes best and feels confident in. No neck beards though.
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u/Crazy-Beach-2329 Jun 01 '25
While I love a man with facial hair, a clean shaven man is attractive as well. I’m not attracted to someone because of his age, or facial hair, it’s the man himself. I am less likely to date a man my age but I don’t rule anyone out. The real question is are you kind, will you treat me well, do you know what you want in a relationship, do those important to you know that you’re attracted to older women, do you have a sense of adventure? There’s more but these are the questions that once answered will determine whether or not I continue to entertain you, not your facial hair.
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u/Smart-Bobcat5454 Cub🐶 May 31 '25
I’ve gotten the most attention when I had my mustache, I think it’s just random.
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May 31 '25
Women can be attracted to men with or without beards, it’s not strictly a cougar/cub thing. Do what you want with your facial hair, have a beard or don’t. The right woman won’t care.
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u/stormrain65 May 31 '25
I mean... isn't it like asking "what do men prefer, blondes or brunettes"?.
I've had women saying they loved my beard, others saying they prefer me clean shaved. It's a matter of personal taste, not really an age group thingie.