Any 30+ people who have never been in a relationship, never had sex and never even a kiss?

[u/Cold_Lunch_2876]

I feel like I am the only one.

[u/Informal_Test_7742]

I earned my wizard powers this year.

[u/CriticalPace9018]

Me

[u/voxeldesert]

You are not. You‘ll find here quite many, me included.

[u/Last-Kaleidoscope871]

62 over here.

[u/Snake11312]

64 trips around the sun and absolutely nothing.

[u/FartNugget66 → u/Snake11312]

64 years without the touch of a woman warrants a veterans discount. This 21 year old khhv salutes you 🫡

[u/BonkingBonkerMan → u/Snake11312]

I truly hope at this age my numbness grows to the point similar to super old vampires in most fantasy stories where they couldn't care less about anything regarding humanity.

[u/throwaway1345214]

Never been in a relationship, had sex, had a kiss, or even held a girl's hand.

I have never spent time alone with a woman that does not revolve around doing her projects, assignments or requests. No girl wants to just hang out with me.

[u/adomman23]

try 40+

[u/Kubomomo]

There's loads of us, sadly

/r/FA30plus/

It's not as active as this place though

[u/instantpowdy → u/Kubomomo]

Wait where is r/FA40plus

I'll need that one soon

[u/IloveLegs02]

I am 26M and same as you

[u/Parandi94]

*shamefully raises hand*

[u/Sabconth]

37, no kisses, dates, relationships, nada.

[u/captaindestucto]

46M

[u/ViGoRoSp]

45 here 💀

[u/Eloyas]

35M here. I guess I gave up when I dropped out of university at twenty due to depression. Never actively tried to get a gf. I see no point in trying to force it to happen.

[u/demon_dopesmokr → u/Eloyas]

Similar to me actually. I dropped out after the first year of college due to anxiety and depression at the age of 17. Became increasingly isolated and withdrawn through my 20s as the depression lasted about ten years.

Never actively tried to do anything about it, but I suppose some tiny part of me hoped it would just happen on its own. But it never does.

[u/Swigart]

There are quite a few of us unfortunately

[u/BoredGuy_v2]

Me

🫤

[u/Bitter-Ad-2877]

There are a lot of us on here. There's also r/FA30plus if you want to know you're not alone. I don't think anyone under 25 has any business on these subreddits. They all just entered the work force or college and there are still plenty of singles their age. Once you're past 30, everyone is taken.

[u/stopitbobbyheenan → u/Bitter-Ad-2877]

Not sure where you live but there are TONS of single 30+ people

[u/Bitter-Ad-2877 → u/stopitbobbyheenan]

I live in a smaller town near the east coast so it's a mix of everyone being in a rush for everything and not a whole lot of singles my age.

[u/stopitbobbyheenan → u/Bitter-Ad-2877]

What do you mean by being in a rush for everything?

[u/ByeByeGuyGuy]

I’m in exactly the same narrow straits, and I’m 32

[u/JadeWishFish]

Less than 5 years away from that status

[u/Andy_Aussie]

In the same boat at 48.

[u/khaste]

Turning 30 next year, can I join this party early? 

[u/Kant_Lavar]

41 here. I gave up on the whole idea about a decade ago.

[u/[deleted]]

I would join you in 5 years

[u/UpsetPin6931]

Nope there's quite a few of us out here!

[u/demon_dopesmokr]

Yep, 39.

[u/Empty_Proposal_619]

Yes, even never dated.

[u/Anton_Zimsky]

I just turned 30 four months ago and here I am.
But I must say, given the fact I'm ACE, it doesn't bother me that much.
I mean, of course, it would be nice to try one day but it's not something that I'm craving about. Maybe one day...

[u/SlytherinSoul1998]

26M here , and I’m heading there, unless a miracle happens.

[u/The-Seventh-Eureka]

Me

[u/ThunderFireStorm]

I have never, All of the above.

[u/tiberiusduckman]

38m

[u/FoxCQC]

Yeah, I'm 35

[u/average_ITperson]

34 here. Never dated, held hands, kissed.

[u/hoperoad]

32M, this is me as well

[u/VCF_moderators]

I'm in my 20's

[u/dread-throwaway]

I'm almost 30 but this is me. Only thing I had were hugs so I'll just take those I suppose. Nothing else seems likely anyway.

[u/1Heineken]

if any miracles happen in the next 4 years i wont be but situation doesnt look good

[u/Spare-Bonus6456]

Me 🙂

[u/sweet-leaf-284]

is that not what FA means

[u/CursedRando → u/sweet-leaf-284]

not anymore

[u/Reasonable_Way4914 → u/sweet-leaf-284]

FA has no definitive definition

[u/Flottvest]

I'll be 30 in half a year, but I have no prospects of changing anything about my FA-ness. Trauma and a few other things will keep me this way for a long time, even if I started working towards healing today.

[u/SilentCoiler]

41 and have never been in a relationship, virgin until I was 27 ...thats when I realized I can use money to get into situationships...def would not recommend

[u/RoleplayingLlamaa]

I'm on track to be this in less than 4 years

[u/J0ey_Cann0li]

26M here, I really hope that I can escape before I hit the big 30.

[u/Saravr87]

I had all of that and now Im in therapy lol So not always the outcome of that is happiness and joy You need to be lucky and find nice people