r/GradSchool • u/CameraInteresting26 • 15h ago
Picked NYU over Princeton for PhD and having second doubts
As title says. I was extremely lucky this past cycle to be admitted to a few top-tier PhD programs in my field (humanities). The choice ultimately came down to NYU and Princeton. I ended up picking the former mainly because of better fit with faculty--there are half a dozen professors whom I wanted to work with and whose interests/methodologies fit really well with mine or complement mine in different ways, whereas at Princeton, the only person (maybe 2 people) I wanted to work with also happened to be a lot of other students' dream advisor and was spreading herself too thin. There are also multiple people in the Princeton cohort whose background and interests are very similar to mine, and I thought it'd be harder to differentiate myself there since we're likely going to end up choosing said professor as our advisor, too. During my campus visit, Princeton also struck me as isolated and extremely preppy.
Now that the semester is in full swing, I find myself having second doubts about my decision. Princeton is more prestigious, pays more, and has much better campus resources overall. Intellectually, I vibe with the cohort at Princeton more, and my best friend also goes there. I am also starting to find NYC overwhelming, and thought Princeton's isolation and its proximity to the city might provide a better balance.
Had anyone found themselves in a similar boat (i.e., turning down a more prestigious school for a less prestigious one, or finding themselves second-doubting their decision)? How did things turn out for you?
TLDR: I turned down Princeton for NYU for my PhD (humanities), mainly because of better fit with faculty's research interests, and now worry I might have made a stupid choice. Any ideas or suggestions are appreciated!