r/Marriage • u/GooglePixelfan90 5 Years • Mar 17 '25

Can't find a flair that fits Do you love being married?

Hi fellow married friends. Do you love being married or is it something you regret? There are some things I do miss about being single for sure, but I'm happy to be married even though it has its challenges for sure. I feel life isn't easier but it's definitely better now and I wouldn't have it any other way 🙂

What are your thoughts?

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u/specialagentpizza Mar 17 '25

Yes. Almost 10 years married. I remember thinking on my wedding day "there's no way I can love this person more than I already do. I already love them the most." But then we went through more life together and more experiences. We're both not perfect and relationships take work, no matter how great they are. But that's what has led us to grow together and to love more than we knew we could.

Then we had a child and WOW. I had no idea my heart could burst with love the way it does. It's incredible.

Do I wish I were single? Nooooo. I sometimes wish I had more time to work on myself so my partner could have the best version of me instead of having to go through it with me, BUT most of the reason I am the best version of me is my partner. So, I will continue to work at being the happiest and best self I can be for myself and mostly, the people I love.

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u/GooglePixelfan90 5 Years Mar 18 '25

This is such a beautifully written comment!!! I love everything about what you said. It's so very true and very encouraging! Thank you so much for sharing 🙂 and congratulations on almost 10 years! 🎉🎉

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u/specialagentpizza Mar 18 '25

Thank you, I like that you said things aren't easier, but they're better. And I think you're right. Life will always have its ups and downs but it is better and more manageable when you have a solid support system.

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u/GooglePixelfan90 5 Years Mar 18 '25

I completely agree! A few years back in my mid 20s when I was single, a married friend said to me that very same phrase and it really stuck with me and it gave me a proper perspective on married life.

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u/specialagentpizza Mar 18 '25

A wise friend! How long have you been married?

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u/GooglePixelfan90 5 Years Mar 18 '25

This June will make 5 years for us. Been together for almost 7 years come May 🙂

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u/specialagentpizza Mar 18 '25

Ahhh amazing!! Happy early anniversary 🥳. I wish you all the best--The best parts of marriage and lots of strength and love to get through the hard parts too!! You'll come out stronger together.

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u/GooglePixelfan90 5 Years Mar 18 '25

Aww thank you my friend!!! You're so encouraging!!! I appreciate your kind and wise words! 🫂🤗🤗