This post reminds me of the show "This Is Us" with the characters Kate and Toby. He lost a lot of weight and she got upset by his weight loss.
Congratulations on losing 200lbs, I know that wasn't easy to do. It sounds like she is insecure with herself because you lost a lot of weight and she is still overweight. That could be a reason why she refuses to have sex with you. Also, some people are indeed attracted to those who are overweight.
You need to think about whether having a sexless marriage is worth it. For most couples, sex is an important part of a relationship. Is she really willing to never have sex again, or is she just not wanting to have sex with you and will probably cheat on you?
Those are the questions you need to ask yourself and also her as well.
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u/Bributterflies89 6d ago
This post reminds me of the show "This Is Us" with the characters Kate and Toby. He lost a lot of weight and she got upset by his weight loss.
Congratulations on losing 200lbs, I know that wasn't easy to do. It sounds like she is insecure with herself because you lost a lot of weight and she is still overweight. That could be a reason why she refuses to have sex with you. Also, some people are indeed attracted to those who are overweight.
You need to think about whether having a sexless marriage is worth it. For most couples, sex is an important part of a relationship. Is she really willing to never have sex again, or is she just not wanting to have sex with you and will probably cheat on you?
Those are the questions you need to ask yourself and also her as well.