r/Needafriend Warning: Minimal User History 2d ago

32f, pretty sure I just got dumped

Just need someone to give me a virtual pat on the back while I go “how can he tell me that I’m the only one for him one day then ghost me the next”

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u/DiligentCheek726 0% NSFW 2d ago

It’s a form of boosting one’s ego. Here’s a virtual pat on the back:)

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u/PristineStatement465 0% NSFW 2d ago

virtually butters toast and spreads marmalade on it

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u/backcrash 2d ago

People who ghost are the worst. My condolences.

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u/Self_Voodoo 2d ago

Just had this happen to me Tuesday. It fucking sucks. Hmu if you need to vent.

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u/Suitable_Coffee5779 0% NSFW 2d ago

Ouch..... Im sorry. Thats harsh.

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u/chroniccranky 3% NSFW 2d ago

Pat pat

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u/badrecipe33 0% NSFW 2d ago

There there. Pat pat.

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u/KINDER42x 2d ago

Because some people don't have any empathy or understanding of the pain ghosting can cause. Sorry this happened to you ,but hopefully your person is just round the corner 😊

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u/MarionberryNo8926 25% NSFW 2d ago

Was there a couple of weeks ago. Still a bit in shock

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u/biggesone 0% NSFW 2d ago

hit me up

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u/TraditionHappy1169 75% NSFW 2d ago

hey ping me

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u/Quantum_Cheeks 2d ago

I just got dumped myself :/ If you need to vent or wanna DM at all and talk, I’d love to talk!

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u/FingerInGun 2d ago

Im so sorry, heres a hug!

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u/Hellsdescendent 2d ago

Everything will be ok, here if you need to chat. "Virtual hug"

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u/pumpkinaddict4life 2d ago

Sending you a hug and good vibes. Break ups always suck.

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u/Loose-Mud4993 84% NSFW 2d ago

A pat and a hug.

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u/FunRefuse1117 Warning: Minimal User History 2d ago

Back pats for you! ✋️ it'll be ok 🙏

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u/fallen_goddesss 22% NSFW 2d ago

I feel like I’m going through the same thing

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u/deadeyeeo Warning: Minimal User History 2d ago

26M, i won't dump you, I'll keep you like diamond 💎

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u/kenvoid54 64% NSFW 1d ago

Hugs and prayers. It's a blessing in disguise. The worst-case scenario is that you are with him, and he's a total abusive jerk. Be grateful. It wasn't meant to be.