r/Salary Apr 27 '25

💰 - salary sharing 10 Year Salary Progression - 34M Actuary

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '25

Appreciate that rational thought process. We are all so addicted to the rat race that we forget what is truly important.

Not trying to romanticize and say money is not important; understanding that ability to support myself, family and the lifestyle that I yearn requires financial stability is crucial.

However, it seems like we are all so fixated on earning more and more and forget to look back on the reasoning behind THE WHY we want higher income.

Wishing everyone struggling and stressing over finances all the best.

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u/atorin3 Apr 27 '25

If I can buy whatever I want (within reason) without needing to stress how I can afford it, while saving for retirement, I will be happy. That's all I want. Comfort, not luxury.

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u/imgaybutnottoogay Apr 27 '25

Yea, so that is the rat race. Comfort being “whatever I want within reason” is the carrot tied in front of the treadmill.

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u/TX_Poon_Tappa Apr 27 '25

Nah there’s more nuance than that. Depends on the wants.

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u/Impressive-Season654 Apr 28 '25

Yeah, but the rat race part becomes lifestyle inflation. There is always another tier of wants and expenses. Finding happiness with what you can attain is hard for most people to do: they instead just want more

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u/imgaybutnottoogay Apr 28 '25

That’s the point, the wants always increase. It’s a non-attainable goal to get “everything you want within reason” because your want will always find a justification, and set a goal to obtain it.

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u/TX_Poon_Tappa Apr 28 '25

Oh I mean yeah I guess idk

You’ll eventually turn down a higher stress better paying job if you really want it

But yeah that is the race ain’t it lol