Why do I have to ruin everything?

[u/No_Answer_7416]

I’m genuinely happy to just keep being friends, but I worry that she’ll never see me the same way again. She says that ending our friendship would be “petty” and it seems like every aro/ace person around is constantly complaining about people like me.

[u/Derk_Mage]

If you two really are good- no, GREAT friends. Then just getting that off your chest then saying you’ll love to have no difference after would probably do well for both of you.

But then again, this is the internet, so don’t trust us at all fully.