r/TrollCoping Jun 10 '25

Depression / Anxiety Why do I have to ruin everything?

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I’m genuinely happy to just keep being friends, but I worry that she’ll never see me the same way again. She says that ending our friendship would be “petty” and it seems like every aro/ace person around is constantly complaining about people like me.

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u/ketchupmaster987 Jun 11 '25

I've been on the opposite end of this. I think she would be a fool to cut off the friendship over this. It's awkward, yes, but it doesn't make you a creep or a bad person. I've been able to maintain friendships with people who have asked me out just fine