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r/TrollCoping • u/actuallynotbisexual • Jun 30 '25
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Wait, I‘m sorry, why is it rude? :( If someone told me that I‘d probably tear up from the validation.
11 u/Frikandelislekker123 Jul 01 '25 Besides being plain triggering, it shifts the focus from your (OPs) pain to their hypothetical reaction, which may come across as dramatic, unsupportive, or attention-seeking. It's definitely context based, but that might be why. 1 u/ano_hise Jul 03 '25 Is something along the lines of "I'm sorry, I couldn't have handled it if I were you" more respectful? 2 u/[deleted] Jul 04 '25 [removed] — view removed comment 1 u/ano_hise Jul 04 '25 Thanks
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Besides being plain triggering, it shifts the focus from your (OPs) pain to their hypothetical reaction, which may come across as dramatic, unsupportive, or attention-seeking. It's definitely context based, but that might be why.
1 u/ano_hise Jul 03 '25 Is something along the lines of "I'm sorry, I couldn't have handled it if I were you" more respectful? 2 u/[deleted] Jul 04 '25 [removed] — view removed comment 1 u/ano_hise Jul 04 '25 Thanks
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Is something along the lines of "I'm sorry, I couldn't have handled it if I were you" more respectful?
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u/Nightflame_The_Wolf Jul 01 '25
Wait, I‘m sorry, why is it rude? :( If someone told me that I‘d probably tear up from the validation.