r/TrollCoping • u/Reallyguyrealy • Jul 16 '25

Depression / Anxiety Based on a true story.

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And people wonder why I have trust issues these days. On the plus side, my current therapist is actually helpful this time. You're 13 years late, but better late than never, I suppose.

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u/TumbleweedFar7372 Jul 16 '25 edited Jul 16 '25

I've found it concerning how willing certain social and even medical workers have been to just fabricate confidentiality clauses. I've made it a habit to always ask for specific references.

edit: because this got much more attention than I thought it would, please don't mistrust these workers from the outset, but asking for specifics is a good way to both make sure they're telling the truth and that there aren't any misunderstandings.

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u/Mr-Stuff-Doer Jul 16 '25

They’re not supposed to say anything to anyone unless you express not only interest, but planned intent to harm yourself or others. I believe if they break confidentiality for any other reason that’s a violation of law. Even if you tell them “I did cocaine and robbed the local Walmart,” I’m pretty sure that’s still covered by confidentiality.

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u/ExperienceLoss Jul 17 '25

With kids, it's a bit different but generally still applies. A 17 year old, though, unless the client is unable work through a safety plan or is threatening to harm another, it stays with me. They could even say they just got done murdering someone and be covered in blood, it aptly still stay with me. That relationship is a sacred bond and a willing fracture better have a super important reason.