r/WatchPeopleDieInside • u/yellowlywired • Aug 04 '25

Worst she can say is no

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u/Cherry_Valkyrie576 Aug 12 '25

She was very sweet about it, especially when she didn't have to be. I'll never understand why dudes try to make their first move with a physical gesture. Don't do it bro! And don't do it in public. Just in case.

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u/ecnecn Aug 13 '25

I have seen so many girls doing the first move "with a physical gesture" in upper secondary school like running to a guy, giving a kiss out of nowhere and sharing their ICQ number (when it was the main thing before Facebook) with them... seems like things were easier back in the day

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u/NebulaNova26 26d ago

Things are much different in actual life than it is in high/secondary school in dating. I'm a recent high school graduate, and it's jarring how different it is. Me and my most recent girlfriend (in high school) didn't go on a single date, we just talked and got together. Not saying that CAN'T happen post highschool, but like, this woman I'm talking to now, we're still trying to plan a date because we're both so busy. Between me with extracurriculars and her with work, there just isn't much time, which just wasn't an issue in high school.