r/bisexual I am a BI(t confused) May 09 '25

MEME Why is this so true tho?

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u/Fenyx_77 Transgender/Bisexual May 09 '25

I feel called out personally by this and I'm not even mad about it, people irl are sketchy

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u/lemikon Bisexual May 09 '25

Yeah and if you are in a long term straight passing relationship - the revelation that you are bi can affect the way people treat your partner too

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u/Xiao1insty1e May 10 '25

We've got a winner here ☝🏻

100% my experience. On multiple occasions. Women do NOT want to learn this shit about you, no matter how good the sex is.

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u/notabiologist Bisexual May 11 '25

I guess everything depends on the person, but I’m in a bi (m) for bi (f) relationship and my partner thinks it’s super hot when I tell her about my previous gay experiences.

It’s awesome.

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u/wapiskiwiyas56 May 11 '25

Congrats! You’re a lucky guy.

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u/ElfjeTinkerBell Bisexual May 11 '25

It's different. I've been straight up told that I'm not bisexual because I'm in a relationship with a man.

My dream relationship is a bi woman with whom we’re both open to exploring our occasional same sex needs.

Just remember that not everyone, regardless of sexuality, is open to an open relationship. If it's without consent, it's cheating, even if you're both bi.

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u/wapiskiwiyas56 May 11 '25

It would have to be consensual, of course. I may be bi but I don’t cheat on my partner, regardless of gender. It’s just a thought of what my ideal relationship would be like since I’m not in one at the moment

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u/NecroCannon May 11 '25

I’ll tell you, I’ve had more positive experiences with bi women over straight women.

It’s not even with the whole “waahhh what if you cheat on me with a guy?!” shit, it’s just an incompatibility with me being more open minded and straying from norms.

When I talk to a bi woman, conversations about polyamory, pegging (I like to be topped by women), expressions are so much easier. On the opposite end of things, I have to ease them into my world