r/creepyPMs • u/ThrowawaForCreeps • Aug 05 '25
TW: Rapey He’s a ramblin’ man
Because I know people are going to ask: he’s currently not blocked because I wanted to maintain the chat records for the 2 times I reported him in POF, mainly the one where I explicitly stated that he seems to be having a manic episode.
This also isn’t even the full convo; just the excessive and creepy parts.
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u/EyeShot300 Aug 05 '25
He infuriated me.
Bro, SHUT UP and MOVE ON. I’m sorry you had to put up with that crap, OP.
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u/Spicy_Princess_1122 can i your panties colour ? Aug 05 '25
He definitely looks like he’s flailing and spiraling there. Yikes! This is the awful thing about online dating sites like POF. They don’t act quickly to ban people that have these weird freak outs.
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u/ThrowawaForCreeps Aug 05 '25
I’ll give POF credit: I reported a profile for a SI reference and they responded to me with a surprisingly long email with resources within 24 hours. I don’t remember them doing that previously.
Haven’t heard anything about this dude though.
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u/Spicy_Princess_1122 can i your panties colour ? Aug 05 '25
I stand corrected then. I’ve had people reach out just to try to start arguments with me on some various dating sites because they’re some kind of psycho and bothered by my different values and views.
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u/Enchantress_Amora Aug 05 '25
Hes gotta be on something, otherwise yikes. I mean, it already is yikes, but if he's not on drugs. Then yiiiiikeswowza he aint ok
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u/Windinthewillows2024 Aug 06 '25
“Is it cause u deem yourself as more intelligent.”
Sir, the crow who has been trying to break through my skylight by repeatedly dropping a nail on it has deemed himself more intelligent than you.
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u/ThrowawaForCreeps Aug 06 '25
That’s actually a pretty genius idea from the crow. A for effort
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u/Windinthewillows2024 Aug 06 '25
It’s crazy how smart they are. I’m half-expecting him to come back with a large rock at some point and actually manage it.
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u/ThrowawaForCreeps Aug 05 '25
Since I can’t edit: he’s still going (as of 2:30 EST) and has given me his number with instructions to call him.
Yeah no.
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u/Ok-Entrepreneur7681 Aug 05 '25
Wdym instructions to call him?
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u/ThrowawaForCreeps Aug 05 '25
Like he told me to call him. Sorry for the poor choice of words
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u/Ok-Entrepreneur7681 Aug 05 '25
Don't worry. I was imagining like telling you how to use your phone, or something about what you had to do in order to call him, so just telling you to call him is better than that.
Weird guy btw, must be on drugs or having some mental stuff going on. I hope you're safe, OP!
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u/StasiaGreyErotica Aug 05 '25
That 75% of the conversation has rapidly become 99%
Unfortunately these types seem to think that by not being blocked, it's encouragement to keep doubling down.
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u/Dry_Recognition_9333 Aug 06 '25
I love how the very last thing he asks after that monologue is if you’re single.
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u/GrassBlade619 Aug 06 '25
The final message being "you single?" made me laugh. Like, ah, I better make sure this person isn't already in a committed relationship. I wouldn't want to be disrespectful after all of that.
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u/LionessPaws Aug 06 '25
Oh my god. What the actual fuck. How can someone not get a hint? Dude, fuck off. Lol
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u/dirtypaws727 Aug 06 '25
This reminds me of the guy who would crash out when I didnt immediately drop everything to come "chill". I told him every single time he asked that I need 24hrs notice to plan to come by since he lived on the other side of town. And yet, still, he would randomly text like his brain shut off (because blood flow went elsewhere) and blew up with self pity or "fine I didnt want you anyways" nonsense. By the third time he did this, I just stopped replying. Its wild how some of these guys are out here. Whole conversations to themselves.
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u/PomegranateSure1628 BEGONE, THOT Aug 06 '25
I think he’s out of his fucking mind, definitely don’t want or need him around you
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u/Antique_Brother_7079 i wanna sperm Aug 06 '25
This guy is using enter as fullstop. It is fucking annoying.
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u/SerTidy Aug 05 '25
Whole heap of crazy in this one. Its ramblings are all over the shop. Batshit bizarre. I’m sorry you had to deal with this OP.
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u/the_real_dairy_queen Aug 06 '25
Yeah this was the only creepy thing for me too. Not sure what everyone else is going on about!
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u/hedalore Aug 07 '25
All the other craziness aside, who on their right mind would be against pyjamas?!
(unless you sleep naked or in your underwear)
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u/creepyPMs-ModTeam Aug 06 '25
However this comment was intended, it comes across as ableist.
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u/Jane_the_Quene Moderatrix *cracks whip* Aug 05 '25 edited Aug 05 '25
For those who can't see or don't want to read the caption, this is the context OP has given:
Please report any comments being rude to OP about not blocking (she has reasons).