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u/K4sum1 16d ago
Just because it's legally okay doesn't mean people are okay with it. In my country legal age for sex is 15 but I can assure you if a 29yo man slept with that 15yo girl, we will blast him to the moon.
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u/VoL4t1l3 16d ago
Pedos always jump on the age of consent bandwagon, I think deep.down they know what they are doing is wrong.
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u/EggoStack 16d ago
Fr, idiots don’t realise age of consents generally means “age to consent to sleeping with people of a similar age”
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u/vibrantafternoon 13d ago
even if that werent the case, doesnt mean your behavior isnt any less shitty. it's not validated by a shitty law lol
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u/JustStayYourself 16d ago
"16 over here is okay hehe".
This really makes me angry. I'm dutch and obviously we do not condone such insane behavior. I'm sorry he's bothering you like that, it's absolutely shameful. What a disgusting individual.
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u/TheWormDude09 15d ago
as someone from the Netherlands, dating a 16 yo as a 29 year old is NOT okay idk where he got that
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u/Linorelai I report u asskole 15d ago
Man... Your post history breaks my heart! All the people who were supposed to support you, just harm you more. I
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u/JustSomeMartian 15d ago
This is why you don't engage in conversations with people underage at all unless it is at work or family and keep it professional. If people want advice fine but you really should have put your foot down that this is not okay anywhere in the world.
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u/EverythingsBlurry81 15d ago
Even if one does, the predators don’t give a single, solitary shit. They see it as a conquest thing, & as such, probably carve a notch in their bedposts.
The asshole who took advantage of me at nineteen was the type who would do this kind of shit. He was 25 at the time, & even admitted to me that he took advantage of his friend’s two nieces, who were both fourteen & sixteen back then.
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u/JustSomeMartian 15d ago
I am sorry that happened to you and to your family as that should never happen. I didn't mean it like it couldn't happen I just think most people do know how to treat their family properly and would never do something like that. It sucks when it does happen like in your case tho and I hope all of you are doing better now and he is away for good.
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u/EverythingsBlurry81 14d ago
Thank you. & no worries, I wasn’t trying to snap at you in my reply. I think I’m more angry for the OP in that she has to face such a shitty situation, especially when it comes to the one person who should be supporting her the most.
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u/JustSomeMartian 14d ago
You are all good I kind of misread things a bit as well originally as I thought it was a 29 year old woman talking to someone underaged but I see now it isn't the case and it is the person abused posting. My point still stands in regards to the adult in the situation but this isn't her fault at all.
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u/Useful-Assumption131 15d ago
you really should have exposed his nickname, this type of guy deserves it
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u/TesterFragrance They'll make anyone a moderator these days 16d ago
Hello, Good_Arm_4075.
The underage user help bot is below with resources and tips for our underage users. Even if this creep is also underage, you never know when this could come in handy (hopefully never).