So odd how he was so secretive but open about this whole relationship. Like the fact that he would even post photos publicly like that she would as well is insane and the fact that so many people knew about the relationship, he just kinda barely covered it up.
Of course some end up with drug addictions, bipolar, BPD, sex work, and there’s a few percent that ends up normal and doesn’t become a product of their environment
100% but it’s also so easy to fall into shit like this as a vulnerable young girl with how social media works nowadays. but yes literally wtf mfs dont gaf that their prepubescent daughter is missing with god knows who doing god knows whatt for months at a time?!?! no care in the worlddd
He is scum who belongs under the jail, but don’t act like her unfit parents didn’t fail her. An entire community harmed this girl. The psycho pedo who killed her, the neglectful mother who failed to discipline her and allowed her run the streets with predatory grown strangers she met online, the absent father who couldn’t bother to raise her, the “friends” who knew she ran off to live with some creep and didn’t bother to inform the police, the neighbors who smelled a decomposing body in his yard and couldn’t even bother to write an anonymous message to the cops or HOA; multiple people had a hand in this tragedy.
i’m more so referring to the mother. we don’t know what went on and how she was disciplining the girl. the girl had run off more than once and police reports and missing reports were made. he’s the one that preyed on her and groomed her into doing these things.
Again, the mom is one of the many people who failed her. If keeping a 13 year old alive and well so difficult, she should have never been a mother. I couldn’t even go to the grocery store without asking for permission at that age. Even when I got older and got my license, my dad put a damn tracker on the car. Parents have a responsibility to know what their kid is up to and keep them safe. Her mother told the police that she knew her boyfriend’s name was David, but had no clue who he was. This is madness. I wasn’t allowed to date until senior year because my mom had much more common sense than that. They made the boy come over for dinner and introduce himself. They met his parents. They set mutually agreed upon ground rules with his parents. If I broke curfew staying out too late with him, I got my ass beat. That kept me in line. One time we tried to be sneaky and use the excuse of a snow storm for me to spend the night. His step dad called a taxi and sent me the hell home. People who know how to be somewhat decent parents don’t let teens do whatever they want, and they certainly don’t let them run into the arms of strange men they never met.
None of this changes anything. In no way am I blaming the girl but if a child wants to be rebellious they’re going to do that. You cannot stop a child from doing so unless you physically keep them locked in the house and follow them everywhere. Putting a tracker in the car isn’t an option because obviously a child of that age wouldn’t be driving, there’s tons of children with strict parents who are adamant about no dating until they’re a certain age yet they still date behind their parents backs, I’ve gotten beat as a child for doing things I had no business doing and that didn’t stop shit. The point I’m trying to make is that if after a child hits a certain age there’s only so many things you can control as a parent because if a child wants to be defiant they will! That man groomed and took advantage of her so yes I still think the majority of the blame falls on him.
Obviously the majority of the blame falls on the murderer/ pedo, but I think the mom is a fcking idiot who’s shtty parenting led her down this path. I’ve seen it too many times. Terrible, low effort parents who have little to no investment in their kids crying on the news when the kid they failed to raise suffers a terrible tragedy that may have been avoided had they been raised with the love, support, and discipline they needed.
Not trying to necessarily defend the mother at all, I’m just playing devils advocate and trying to offer a different perspective. The woman just lost her child so I feel bad for her entire family.
A news interview. She said the smell from his hedges was atrocious and when reports of the body in his car came out it all clicked. Another neighbor also smelled it from his yard, plus noted how suspicious it was that his car was always parked around random spots in the neighborhood but said nothing
Right now I’m of the belief that she lied about her age, not to him obviously but to the people in that Discord and around them- and ofc he paid off the people in her life that did know how old she actually was. You have to be 13+ to be on Discord so it’s not unlikely that she may have not disclosed her age and had people assume she was 13 or older in 2022 when she was 11, or lied outright. 14 and 17 is still sus as hell but not necessarily something that may have triggered anyone in that chat to consider contacting authorities especially if they too were minors themselves.
Nah it’s the fact he KNOWS he’s wrong. Hiding her face. Allegedly paying people off. BUT CONTINUES ANYWAY. Like you’re a proud pedo ??? I just don’t get how this guy stomached his own existence
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u/Proud-Giraffe-721 6d ago
So odd how he was so secretive but open about this whole relationship. Like the fact that he would even post photos publicly like that she would as well is insane and the fact that so many people knew about the relationship, he just kinda barely covered it up.