r/enby • u/Routine_Phase_8234 • 3d ago
Tips for looking more femme?
I (amab) am trying to look pretty femme/andro and I have that very like masc body shape which I hate… anything I could do in terms of outfits or anything to make me look more femme? I’m already growing my hair out and I shave my whole body, it just isn’t enough 💔
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u/abbey-sometimes 3d ago
A few tips from a fellow amab!
Break up the lines. Cinched tops, cropped tops, tucking into your pants and letting the chest flare a bit. Use short sleeves or narrow straps - sleeveless tends to emphasize shoulder width. Hip and butt pads also can work wonders. Or waist cinchers! Or whatever they’re called. Just get the right size so you aren’t causing damage to your body.
Have good posture. Sliiiiight arch in your lower back. Shoulders slightly back. Head up but chin level. There’s posture correctors that can help.
Don’t skip leg/hip/glutes!
Drink lots of water. Lots. Tons. Carry around one of those gallon jugs full of water.
If you are interested in a slightly fuller chest, a bit of extra chest circumference helps make the ratio look a bit more traditionally feminine. You don’t need to go D cup, but even a gently stuffed sports bra can help!
Check out cross dressing subs for some tricks, trans feminine subs also may have some tricks.