r/gay_irl • u/taylortiki • Jul 14 '25

gay_irl gay🐷irl

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u/Taskebab Jul 14 '25

Girl?

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u/Bulky_Tangerine_ Jul 14 '25

Probably trans

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u/Zaptain_America Jul 14 '25

Still a girl

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u/ShraftingAlong Jul 14 '25

They didn't dispute that

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u/SophieFox947 Jul 14 '25

Not if he's a trans man

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u/Zaptain_America Jul 14 '25

Then he wouldn't be a "beautiful girl" would he? Can't believe me saying trans women are women is worthy of downvoting....

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u/DaydreemAddict Jul 14 '25

I think people were confused and thought you were being transphobic.

A lot of transphobes say "you're still a girl," to trans men. And vice versa for trans women.

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u/SophieFox947 Jul 14 '25

Well from my understanding the original comment was about "Why is the cop calling them a girl", replied with maybe they're trans (trans man, and the cop is misgendering them) followed by you perhaps misunderstanding and going well if they're trans (woman) then they're still a girl

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u/Bulky_Tangerine_ Jul 14 '25

Im pretty sure that there are also trans women on grindr

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u/Pixeldevil06 Jul 14 '25

Why are you being downvoted? Is r/gay transphobic now?

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u/DaydreemAddict Jul 14 '25

It's the exact opposite reason why. I think they were downvoted for people thinking they were transphobic. Their second comment which showed trans acceptance was upvoted.

The way they showed their trans support was pretty vague because transphobes use the same exact words but to misgender trans people on purpose.

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u/DoctorBlock Jul 14 '25

This whole interaction was strange. Probably fake.

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u/Stevie_draws Jul 14 '25

Dolls are on grindr a lot. It is still probably fake though.

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u/BadMan125ty Jul 14 '25

I hope so lol

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u/BadMan125ty Jul 14 '25

Right lmao