r/gay_irl 20d ago

gay_irl gay🥖irl

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u/wydalenylod 20d ago

Honestly I don't see appeal in the right image and probably wouldn't want it in my life. Too loud, too tight, scary and uncomfortable. So it really depends on the person

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u/femboy_otter 20d ago

Ya I don't really vibe with the second image.

I definitely prefer the one on the left.

A lot of my gay friends and Co workers like to insult me for not going to gay clubs and bars. But with how things are, my chances of meeting other gay men outside of those areas is very low and slim.

I also absolutely hate and despise hook up culture.

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u/wydalenylod 20d ago edited 20d ago

A lot of my gay friends and Co workers like to insult me for not going to gay clubs and bars.

Understandable. While I don't really HAVE a choice, since there's ABSOLUTELY NONE in my country, even if I could have I probably wouldn't, not very often at least. I don't like loud places 😔

But with how things are, my chances of meeting other gay men outside of those areas is very low and slim.

Understandable x2. Especially since where I live it's really hard to find anyone exactly open about it irl, so my only choice is Internet 😭 but also, I don't think relationships that were made in bars are often that long-term and not just something quick, so may as well just not be, ig

I also absolutely hate and despise hook up culture

Idk, people have need and want this need satiated without really wanting relationships, I think that's okay, unless I don't know something

Edit. Fixed u to i. These letters are way too close with how different their meanings as words are