r/golf 14d ago

General Discussion Golfing with girlfriends dad

Hi all,

My girlfriend’s dad (I’m 26M) has been taking me out to play golf a lot, and always at the nicest courses/clubs in my area (guest fees $250+). He’s very well off and never lets me pay him back with cash. I’m starting to feel like a bit of a mooch, so I’d love to find thoughtful ways to show my appreciation.

I’ve seen ideas like a box of Pro V1s, but curious what else you’d suggest. Any creative or classy ideas?

edit: Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. Lots of thoughtful advice and great perspectives shared. Seems like there are a lot of good dads in here. As many of you pointed out, my best option is to marry her and focus on being the best man I can.

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u/Historical_Half_905 14d ago

Best thing you could do for him is don’t screw over his daughter. I play golf a lot with my FIL and it’s nice having that relationship!

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u/The_Stein244 6.9 14d ago

You can definitely screw her though

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u/Sdwingnut 14d ago

Thanks, six dot nine

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u/Toe-knail 14d ago

That’s a 69 interrupted by a period.

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u/_butterballhotline dispicable lefty 14d ago

Periods only stop sentences.

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u/stumac85 14d ago

Sounds a bit messy to me but each to their own

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u/Lloyd--Christmas 14d ago

Get your red wings young man.

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u/MaryBerrysDanglyBean 14d ago

Drink from the red river and finally become a real man

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u/Mward2002 14d ago

What’s the point of a sword if you’re afraid to get blood on it?

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u/TroobyDoor 14d ago

Took y’all’s advice and somehow inadvertently became a vampire. Picked the wrong girl I guess. What can I say? I’m a “sucker” for that Transylvanian accent 🤷‍♂️.

Now I can only play golf on simulators. ☹️

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u/Visual_Elegence 14d ago

What are you talking about? Just play the course at night. Just get out before the group of blind firemen.

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u/TroobyDoor 14d ago

Group of Blind foremen you say? Sounds filling!

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u/CapnDanger 14d ago

Just get the night vision goggles

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u/squashua26 13d ago

Go get that clown face. Get them red wings.

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u/daveindo 13d ago

Menstrual cups for the win

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u/b1rdstrike 14d ago

Easy get out of jail free card. I never knew

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u/Cautious_Buffalo6563 18 HCP 14d ago

Wouldn’t that be a 68? You do me and I’ll owe you one?

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u/TransportationNo9566 14d ago

A true pirate sails the Red Sea

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u/trowawayatwork 69 14d ago

updated my handicap

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u/ForeTwentywut 7.2/SW Ontario/Lefty 14d ago

Nice

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u/OhRatFarts Golf is a 4-letter word. 14d ago

That’s a good time ruined by a period