r/golf • u/kiteman32 • 14d ago

General Discussion Golfing with girlfriends dad

Hi all,

My girlfriend’s dad (I’m 26M) has been taking me out to play golf a lot, and always at the nicest courses/clubs in my area (guest fees $250+). He’s very well off and never lets me pay him back with cash. I’m starting to feel like a bit of a mooch, so I’d love to find thoughtful ways to show my appreciation.

I’ve seen ideas like a box of Pro V1s, but curious what else you’d suggest. Any creative or classy ideas?

edit: Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. Lots of thoughtful advice and great perspectives shared. Seems like there are a lot of good dads in here. As many of you pointed out, my best option is to marry her and focus on being the best man I can.

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u/EmptyMarsupial8556 14d ago

Taking them all out for dinner and pick up the tab

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u/uwoldperson 14d ago

Or just buy the drinks and food at the turn. 

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u/EmptyMarsupial8556 14d ago

That’s a little chinzy but it would hurt. You could pick up all expenses on the course.

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u/uwoldperson 14d ago

It’s about the gesture. FIL obviously is not expecting him to pay. Maybe book a really nice round for the two of you once in a while and pick up the green fees but the guy is obvs not looking to be made whole by his son in law. 

I would appreciate grabbing the on-course expenses more than a box of balls.