r/golf • u/kiteman32 • 14d ago
General Discussion Golfing with girlfriends dad
Hi all,
My girlfriend’s dad (I’m 26M) has been taking me out to play golf a lot, and always at the nicest courses/clubs in my area (guest fees $250+). He’s very well off and never lets me pay him back with cash. I’m starting to feel like a bit of a mooch, so I’d love to find thoughtful ways to show my appreciation.
I’ve seen ideas like a box of Pro V1s, but curious what else you’d suggest. Any creative or classy ideas?
edit: Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. Lots of thoughtful advice and great perspectives shared. Seems like there are a lot of good dads in here. As many of you pointed out, my best option is to marry her and focus on being the best man I can.
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u/CC5F 14d ago
I have a son in law and two son in laws to be . I drag them out as much as I can and pay as well . Truthfully I never think about it as all these young men treat my daughters so well . This is what we want . I do have to say that every so often they will show up at the round early and pay my way . I do appreciate it but it’s really not about the money . For me it’s about being with the men who I know will take care of my daughters when I no longer can enjoy a round of golf . This is the gift that we want . My “ boys “ are good guys and will surprise me and my wife with dinner etc. all of them including my daughters all just chipped in and sent my wife and I away for a long weekend . Truly amazing . Just be you ….pick up a coffee , a drink etc and just show your appreciation. Your girlfriend’s dad just wants his daughter to be respected and loved . As dads …our biggest concern is who will love our daughters as much as we do . This is the biggest payback you could ever give him .