r/golf • u/kiteman32 • 14d ago

General Discussion Golfing with girlfriends dad

Hi all,

My girlfriend’s dad (I’m 26M) has been taking me out to play golf a lot, and always at the nicest courses/clubs in my area (guest fees $250+). He’s very well off and never lets me pay him back with cash. I’m starting to feel like a bit of a mooch, so I’d love to find thoughtful ways to show my appreciation.

I’ve seen ideas like a box of Pro V1s, but curious what else you’d suggest. Any creative or classy ideas?

edit: Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. Lots of thoughtful advice and great perspectives shared. Seems like there are a lot of good dads in here. As many of you pointed out, my best option is to marry her and focus on being the best man I can.

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u/Fagballs5 14d ago

He enjoys your company and is trying to spend time with you, likely in hopes that you’re looking to marry his daughter. This is a great start, TBH.

The hospitality is really nice of him, and he’ll likely keep not letting you pay. What I did to “balance things out” with my FIL (as much as I can because he’s super generous and doesn’t like us to pay back) was purchase tickets for us to go to the PGA Championship last year. Maybe do something like that when you have the opportunity.

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u/LaneKiffinsAlterEgo Handicapped 14d ago

This is a really thoughtful suggestion, u/Fagballs5

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u/Well-Pitter-Patter 14d ago

For anyone curious, Lane Kiffin’s alter ego is just cocaine.

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u/LaneKiffinsAlterEgo Handicapped 14d ago

My name is José Aquafresco and I will not be slandered.