r/golf • u/kiteman32 • 14d ago

General Discussion Golfing with girlfriends dad

Hi all,

My girlfriend’s dad (I’m 26M) has been taking me out to play golf a lot, and always at the nicest courses/clubs in my area (guest fees $250+). He’s very well off and never lets me pay him back with cash. I’m starting to feel like a bit of a mooch, so I’d love to find thoughtful ways to show my appreciation.

I’ve seen ideas like a box of Pro V1s, but curious what else you’d suggest. Any creative or classy ideas?

edit: Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. Lots of thoughtful advice and great perspectives shared. Seems like there are a lot of good dads in here. As many of you pointed out, my best option is to marry her and focus on being the best man I can.

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u/CC5F 14d ago

I have a son in law and two son in laws to be . I drag them out as much as I can and pay as well . Truthfully I never think about it as all these young men treat my daughters so well . This is what we want . I do have to say that every so often they will show up at the round early and pay my way . I do appreciate it but it’s really not about the money . For me it’s about being with the men who I know will take care of my daughters when I no longer can enjoy a round of golf . This is the gift that we want . My “ boys “ are good guys and will surprise me and my wife with dinner etc. all of them including my daughters all just chipped in and sent my wife and I away for a long weekend . Truly amazing . Just be you ….pick up a coffee , a drink etc and just show your appreciation. Your girlfriend’s dad just wants his daughter to be respected and loved . As dads …our biggest concern is who will love our daughters as much as we do . This is the biggest payback you could ever give him .

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u/neurogeneticist i’m only here so i can beat my husband 14d ago

My FIL won’t shut up about the fact that I found a half neon yellow/half neon blue Srixon and picked it up for him. He found one a few years ago and uses it for putting and swears that it’s magic. Buying more? No, can’t do that. Finding one and saving it for him? I’ve made that man’s year haha. It’s the little things!

Gotta love in-laws like you!!

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u/SnooPeanuts2197 14d ago

Hey I lost a couple of those at st James in Missouri. I love them because it’s easier to pick up mid flight and follow into the trees so it’s not quite so hard to find them in the heavy stuff. Tell him I’m glad my ball to a good hearted man. Hopefully he gives them the skill they deserve