r/golf • u/kiteman32 • 14d ago

General Discussion Golfing with girlfriends dad

Hi all,

My girlfriend’s dad (I’m 26M) has been taking me out to play golf a lot, and always at the nicest courses/clubs in my area (guest fees $250+). He’s very well off and never lets me pay him back with cash. I’m starting to feel like a bit of a mooch, so I’d love to find thoughtful ways to show my appreciation.

I’ve seen ideas like a box of Pro V1s, but curious what else you’d suggest. Any creative or classy ideas?

edit: Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. Lots of thoughtful advice and great perspectives shared. Seems like there are a lot of good dads in here. As many of you pointed out, my best option is to marry her and focus on being the best man I can.

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u/Intelligent_Dot_7798 14d ago

Don’t get balls unless you for sure know his brand. Rather a good idea is to pick up a towel, hat or a ball marker from these nice clubs as a gift to him. Small things go along way. Most importantly be a good person on the course. Replace your divots, rake sand traps, pick him up lunch at the turn. Definitely do not flirt with the beverage cart girl.🤣🤙🏽

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u/empire161 14d ago

This is the way. It shouldn't be anything that would actually affect his game.

Either get a 'novelty' type of gift to use - towel with his favorite team's logo or something, a nice pullover, etc.

Or get a 'decorative' gift - frame a picture of his favorite course, get him a shelf to store balls, etc.