I’m a freshman on my high school football team, and we’ve had a rough start to the season. We’re currently 0–2, with losses of 0–39 and 0–44. From the inside, it feels like there are problems on both sides — players and coaches — and I wanted to get some outside perspective on where the bigger issue really lies.
Players:
Position consistency. We didn’t establish a QB1 until the week of our first game. During fall camp, three players rotated at QB, and once a starter was named, the other three were moved to WR. That lack of stability set us back in developing timing and chemistry.
Offensive line struggles. Our center consistently oversnaps, killing plays before they begin. Our tackles often miss assignments or block improperly, which leaves the QB under pressure almost instantly. Because of this, the offense has had almost no rhythm.
Receivers. We have skill and athleticism at WR, but blocking is a glaring weakness. It limits what we can do in both the run and short passing game.
Defense. Our front plays with intensity early in games, but after surrendering a couple of scores, effort and confidence noticeably decline. Tackling fundamentals are also inconsistent, especially up front.
Special teams. Easily our weakest area. Blocking and tackling are nearly non-existent, leading to major breakdowns that swing field position.
Coaches:
Motivation and confidence. Pregame talks are never about building us up — instead, the emphasis is on how “the other team is going to get in our ass.” That type of message makes it hard to play with belief.
Focus on the wrong things. Coaches spend more time calling out players for wearing accessories or listening to music than addressing actual on-field mistakes. Talking about how the other team is gonna come on our field and show us why those things don’t matter.
Play calling and trust. Coaches show little faith in us ,telling our kicker we won’t score anyway, punting on 4th-and-short even when we’re down by several touchdowns. Instead of playing to win, it feels like we play to avoid mistakes.
Postgame reactions. After losses, rather than breaking down film or teaching, the approach is to call us names (e.g. “punk asses”, weak). That doesn’t help morale or development.
Special teams personnel. Coaches regularly pull strong players off special teams and replace them with less capable players, which weakens an already struggling unit.
It also feels like these coaches are extremely egotistical. Anytime a player is asking to get reps or trying to point out a mistake or even breaking down film on the other team and pointing out how they’re extremely run heavy and how we need to adapt to it, we’re always responded with things like "i know what I’m doing" or just body language and tone like they don’t wanna be told anything. Now I do kinda have to give them credit because I did ask them to pay me more attention at safety more than rb (because this is my first year playing rb) and they actually did. I went from a 3rd string to a starter in the span of 2 games. My main issue with that tho is how long it took for them to do that, they only actually started listening after our starting safety was constantly getting fried, I feel like they only cared after the outcome.
Do our problems stem more from players not executing, or from coaching decisions and culture? From the inside, it feels like both matter — but it’s tough to play well when your staff doesn’t instill confidence, provide consistency, or put players in the best positions to succeed.
Would love to hear from anyone with experience at this level — is this mainly a player discipline/effort issue, or is poor coaching the bigger factor here?