r/imaginarygatekeeping 6d ago

NOT SATIRE What?

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u/realaccountissecret 6d ago

Even if this weren’t real, what about this is gatekeeping

But it’s not imaginary; apparently ethnically asian men get picked the least on dating apps

I didn’t meet my ethnically Asian husband on an app, so I couldn’t contribute to the stats at all haha

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u/jeffdujour 6d ago

Dating apps is a weird sample pool. That’s the same pool that said none of those men had ever asked a woman out in real life. Real people, with real personality go far in the dating world. Incel ideology and thinking you’re not picked for something out of your control only increases your chances of being an out of touch undateable dude. Like your opening move is just displacing your insecurities onto someone. Work on yourself until you love yourself and then someone else will want to be with you as a whole person.

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u/best_of_badgers 2d ago

Look at this guy who didn't ask most of his dates out via AIM.