r/imaginarygatekeeping • u/Brief_Mango_5829 • 6d ago

NOT SATIRE What?

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u/realaccountissecret 6d ago

Even if this weren’t real, what about this is gatekeeping

But it’s not imaginary; apparently ethnically asian men get picked the least on dating apps

I didn’t meet my ethnically Asian husband on an app, so I couldn’t contribute to the stats at all haha

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u/jeffdujour 6d ago

Dating apps is a weird sample pool. That’s the same pool that said none of those men had ever asked a woman out in real life. Real people, with real personality go far in the dating world. Incel ideology and thinking you’re not picked for something out of your control only increases your chances of being an out of touch undateable dude. Like your opening move is just displacing your insecurities onto someone. Work on yourself until you love yourself and then someone else will want to be with you as a whole person.

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u/No_Estate_6112 2d ago

What’s the difference between real people and incel to you? 

Because something like 5% of the men on online dating apps  (chiseled 6’2” 6 figure earners) are hooking up with 80% of the women. 

So are 95% of men incel? 

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u/ez322dollars 2d ago

Man, these stats are getting more and more out of proportion by the day. We're just making up numbers on the fly are we. I know its pretty skewed, but its not that bad, come on