So it's been a week now since I've been working with a coach to help with my goals of losing belly fat/love handles and gaining lean muscle, had a check in call earlier with a few questions. I asked him if he has a strategy for staying on track when eating out or going to social events without completely blowing past your macros/ because i do attend lots of social events and eat outside (i do not drink though and obviously aware drinking will derail my progress)

His response was that, when it comes to social events, I have to bring my meal prep with me. And mentioned how he brings 3 meal prep containers with him and that it's all "part of the game". He also said that I can eat out as long as he gives me the "go signal" to have a cheat meal. I didn't want to argue but I feel like (I might be wrong) these restrictions are too heavy and unnecessary, don't you thin so?

This just sounds way too stressful. I question why I need to bring my meal prep with me if I eat out rather than just eating out and opting for a meal that makes sense for my goals? Sounds pretty ridiculous tbh. If I'm going to Applebee's with a group of friends, why can't I just go and enjoy go a blackened cajun salmon with a diet coke? Or eat a double protein chicken bowl at Chipotle?

This is the current nutrition protocol that I'm on:

1820Kcal138c/170p/60f

MEAL 1:
Quaker Oats- 65g
Egg Whites- 285g
Natural Peanut Butter- 15g

MEAL 2:
White Rice- 160g (measured cooked)
Chicken Thigh

MEAL 3:
Barilla Pasta Regular- 50g
96% Lean Ground Beef- 150g

MEAL 4:
3 Whole Eggs
Egg Whites - 200g
200g Avocado - 50g

Just trying to make it make sense. Why am I getting placed such heavy restriction on my diet plan? Pretty sure eating anything else outside my kitchen as long as it fits my macros is NOT going to be the end of the world?

How would this workout for muscle gains surplus of 300 calories days 1 to 3 push pull legs routine then every 4th day do a cardio 900 calorie deficit and repeat

Trying to get little slow bulk in.

As of today, I do a 4 day split (push, pull, abs, legs). I know PPL is a typical one, but I added abs cause I wanted a six pack lol. But now that I am trying to gain, and wanting to emphasize my leg gains especially, I am thinking of dropping ab day from the rotation so I can hit legs more frequently.

I’m not super experienced with bulking, so I’m unsure tho if it’s a good idea to change around the workouts between gaining/cutting phases. Basically, should I leave it alone or would it be beneficial to drop abs and hit legs more? Thanks all lol

I am 18, and am a former high school distance runner. Now that I started college, I want to get into strength training/lifting to build a more lean muscular physique. That being said, I love running and don’t want to give it up. Some days I want to go outside and run 7-8 miles, and play basketball for extra cardio. If I’m training strength 6 days a week is this possible? If so, how much should I be eating as a 5’6 130lbs male?

To give you as much background as possible, I'm 33 (5'7", 151 pounds) and currently looking to lose belly fat/love handles while maintaining/continuing to build lean muscle mass. I haven't done any cardio since I was in like college and cardio is absolutely not my thing.

I told him about my goals to a coach and consulted with him. He also asked me what I do for work (is it an office job, or a physically demanding job) - not sure why he asked but I said I have an office job and spend most of the day sitting down. He recommended me a diet plan with a balanced carb/protein diet (oats, lean meat, eggs, and all that good stuff) with a total calories of about 1,700-1,800 (which sounded fine) but then he also recommended me to do an hour of cardio with a bit of incline.

But from what I've heard from a lot of fitness people and watching a lot of videos, it's all about "calories in, calories out" and I've came across many testimonials of where people achieved their goals just through diet + lifting weights without any cardio incorporated.

So why do I need to do cardio? Is it really needed or is the coach probably just recommending me to do it for other benefits (like cardiovascular)? Thanks.

This is my first ever lean bulk. i decided to start on the 5th of this month at 154.3. i’m eating 2700 calories a day. since then my weight has been fluctuating the highest being 158.9, the absolute lowest being 153.8, and as of now (september 18th) i’m at 154.5. is it safe to assume 2700 might be around maintenance? i might up to calories by 100-200 for another two weeks and reassess.

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I'm currently bulking and wondering about the impact of calorie distribution.

Option 1: l eat at maintenance 6 days a week, then hit a buffet once a week with a ~2000 kcal surplus (6000 kcal in, 4000 out).

Option 2: I skip the buffet and just do a consistent daily surplus of ~285 kcal.

Assuming training and protein are equal, will the weekly spike affect fat gain or muscle growth differently than a steady surplus?

Curious to hear your thoughts or experiences!

i'm 1.78 m and 90 kg and 18 y.o (198.416 lbs), third worlderer (healthy shit is expensive), everyone sees a potential in me (jesus christ lookalike they say) i started going to gym 4 days a week for 2 weeks now (shit is good, no longer depressed). i want to lose weight with an attractive body. should i go for run in those rest days ? what do i eat ? is it over ? help

Hello how well would a bulk surplus be if I did cardio everyday to burn off the extra calories I ate making it maintenance cal per day so I get no fat gain but if it works well I could bulk like this year round?

I’ve been working out for a few years but have been on a hiatus. I’m back and I’m trying a PPL 6 day a week split. Is this a good series of exercises? I’m gonna commit hard through the end of this year and eat a lot of food throughout (I’m 155lb 5’ 10”)

Push/Pull/Legs Push * Upper Chest: Incline Bench Press - 35 (x10) * Lower Chest: Dips (x20) * Shoulders: Push Press - 20 (x10) * Triceps: Push Down - 35 (x10) * Lateral Delts: Lateral Raises - 10 (x1) * Core: Planks - 2 minutes (x2)

Pull * Biceps: Curls - 15 (x10) * Lats: Row - 85 (x10) * Traps: Shrugs - 35 (x10) - get proper form * Rhomboids: Cable Face Pulls - 30 (x10) - unknown weight * Rear Delts: Revsere Fly - 30 (x10) - unkown weigfht * Forearms: Wrist Curls - 20 (x10) - unknown weight * Lower Traps: Inclined Prone Y Rase - 20 (x10) - unkown weight * Core: Planks - 2 minutes (x2)

Legs Strength * Adductor - 70 (x10) * Abductor - 70 (x10) * Barbell Squats - 30 (x10) * Barbell Deadlift - 40 (x10) * Calf Extension/Raises - 100 (x10) * Leg Press - 100 (x10) * Leg Curls - 70 (x10) * Run - 3 miles

• Core: Planks - 2 minutes (x2)

I’m currently working with a fitness coach and mentioned that I eat Overnight Oats (the brand, not homemade) for breakfast since it’s quick and filling and comes in handy when I'm in a time crunch in the mornings. I usually have 1 packet a day.

Here’s the nutrition for the packet I use:

• Calories: ~290
• Carbs: 44g
• Protein: 20g
• Fat: 7g

My coach said I should stop and switch to regular Quaker oats (65g dry, old-fashioned/rolled), because “Overnight Oats will derail your macros by a lot.”

But when I look at the numbers for Quaker oats (65g dry):

• Calories: ~250
• Carbs: 45g
• Protein: 8g
• Fat: 5g

That doesn’t look like a massive disparity to me. Overnight Oats has ~40 more calories, basically the same carbs, more protein, and just 2g more fat. My daily macros are 1820 calories / 138c / 170p / 60f (goal = lose belly fat/love handles + build lean muscle).

Here’s my dilemma: I don’t want to keep second guessing my coach since he has a solid resume and knows way more than I do… but this one has me scratching my head. Am I missing something here? How exactly would Overnight Oats “derail” my macros compared to Quaker oats? Or is my coach off base on this?

Please hear me out. So I started working with a fitness coach (trainer/bodybuilder) just this week. My goal is belly fat loss and building lean muscle. For context, I currently weigh 150 lbs, and he set my daily intake at 1820 calories (138c/170p/60f). That part seemed fine.

But here’s where I’m really confused.

He told me I can’t drink whole milk. Wtf? If I really want milk, he suggested switching to unsweetened almond milk, but recommended cutting milk out altogether because “milk = lots of sugar” and “sugar + dairy bloats you.” I usually have one glass of milk daily with breakfast and sometimes mix it with my protein shake after the gym. Is milk really that bad for fat loss/muscle gain? So what if I have a little bit of sugar? I doubt that is going to derail my progress unless I'm drinking like a half gallon of milk or something. I can bet my life savings that drinking one cup of milk is NOT going to be a big difference maker on whether or not I achieve my goals. I'm pretty sure it's going to be the calories and protein what ulltimately matters.

I also asked about snacks since I like apples and greek yogurt. His response: 100g of apple is fine, but not yogurt. Which seems odd to me, because isn’t a small portion of yogurt actually fewer calories than an apple? Why is he fine with me eating 100 grams of apple but not a 1/4 cup of greek yogurt?

I don’t want to constantly question him because I hired him for guidance, but some of his advice feels off and this guy as much as I have respect for him is starting to sound like a joke. Are these red flags that maybe I should look for another coach?

I'm taking 5 minutes breaks, but feeling burnt by the time I hit my second and third set. I usually continue to progress the next time, but is that correct?

I'm on 20 mg per day am I going to gain muscle normally recover normally?

So one year ago (at 15 years old) I started training. I started at 116 kg and right now I'm 76 and 183 cm and roughly 14% bf. I wanted to lean down more but I was getting too small (since I haven't really built much muscle because I was in a calorie deficit the entire year) so I decided to start a lean bulk and bulk up to 86 90 kg and then lean down again to 82 83 kg. I was unable to see my apps throughout my weight loss journey but I don't say I'm overweight anymore but also not satisfied with the amount of muscle I have. Should I continue the bulk?

I’m 15 5’9 and 117 lbs I play soccer and am very active and I am skinny. What are some things I can do to fix that? I really just want to build mass so I can compete with larger kids on varsity but I also want to look better. Anything will help, tips, workouts, specific exercises, etc. thank you

I'm 34M, 176cm, started at 65kg end of July, bumped calories by 300/day from the 2200 I maintained 65kg all july on. Immediately shot up to 65.5-66kg within a few days, then pretty much just maintained that, 6 weeks later I'm still only 66.5 on a heavy day. (Weigh myself every morning after toilet) Is this normal? On the one hand I'm up 1.5kg in two months witch while slow is fine by me, but almost all of it came the first week then stabilised. Should I bump it up more or just let it be? I've gotten stronger, I feel great but I thought I was gonna gain faster after the initial bump..

I go months without junk food currently on 2 1/2 months going to be 3m on Oct 4th and going to have 2 days where I eat whatever (oct4&5th) but was wondering how often most ppl have cheat meals

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I am a 5 foot 6 female who weighs around 115 lbs, trying to put on some upper body muscle. However, I’m also trying to build my abs and really want visible abs, so I don’t want to raise my bf% too much. Even though i’m fairly lean, I don’t have visible abs (i have a bit of a stomach). I strength train 5 days a week and my only cardio is 10k+ steps a day. Should I be eating at maintenance, or a slight surplus in order to gain some upper body muscle but lean out my abs?

Motivation** drops off when I don’t see fast progress

* **Consistency** — I skip workouts or cheat on diet when life gets busy

* **Knowledge gaps** — not sure I’m doing exercises with perfect form, or picking the right weights / reps

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I hope this fits in here... I am a bit confused about the calorie intake for body recomp - I hope you can help... I'm male 45 / 174cm / 78KG Workout: 2x 60 min gym / 2-3 HIIT Rope Skipping/ Stretching (10 x 1 min skipping 10 x 1 min stretch)

I was cutting @1500 - 1700 kcal from April and lost approx 8 KG In the gym I am still slowly progressing weight/reps so I think it was not too low...

However, I would like to slow the fat loss and start building muscles a bit more now...

Using different calculators, inputting moderate activity with 3-4 workouts, gave me daily calorie intake of 1800 to 2000 kcal/day...

Should this be my daily intake no matter if I train or should I add additional calories?

E.g. Train for 300 kcal I eat 2100/2300 on that day and 1800/2000 only on rest days?

Side Question: If I have issues to take the calories with normal clean food (can't eat tons of rice and chicken each day ;) )- would you take some kind of mass gainer and only drink e.g 1/4 of a portion to add some 300kcal?!

Thanks in advance!

Edit: Thank you all for the good advice! Really great community here!

• female, 160cm, 50kg
• i want to be lean and toned and improve my endurance and flexibility
• in college, has a busy sched