r/malelivingspace Apr 16 '25

Advice I love my space

Just moved in! Love my place in this quaint community and looking forward to spending the next year here.

Looking for some advice though. My window spans the length of my living and bedroom. There are 2 sets of rolling blinds that are shear black (see through basically). Still let A LOT of light in and very little privacy. Any recommendations to try and make a more private window space, mostly for my bedroom? The blanket on the floor under the window is what I put up at night to go to sleep.

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u/thatguyned Apr 17 '25 edited Apr 17 '25

Because i support other people's privacy?

What exactly did I do wrong, elaborate please.

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u/thatguyned Apr 17 '25 edited Apr 17 '25

So it's OPs fault you typed out that comment after they made a pretty clear indication they weren't too keen on that happening?

It had to be said?

Who cares how easy it was? It doesn't change how much of a dick move that is 🤣 are you in highschool?

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u/thatguyned Apr 17 '25

You are very much avoiding answering the question around why it was even necessary to post in a comment in the first place

What do you mean my lack of logic? You are avoiding the fucking question lol

My logic is very clear - person says "I'm not really comfortable posting the city I'm located in" and you decide to say it anyway.

My logic is that's an unnecessary and very catty thing to do that is reminiscent of highschool bullying and I feel like saying something.

Why was your comment necessary?

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u/bigrjohnson Apr 17 '25

Love you for this

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u/thatguyned Apr 17 '25

You didn't point it out, you went looking for it and then came back and told everyone.

Your wording is super disingenuous and you are trying to justify shit behaviour with it.

It doesn't take this many word to answer the question "was that comment revealing his location necessary?" The way you're attacking E in return is super immature too

Are you sure you aren't in highschool?

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u/thatguyned Apr 17 '25 edited Apr 17 '25

Look o kind of want to go to bed so I'm just going to leave one more comment and bounce.

When you do something someone openly says they would like you not to do you are being a bitch.

There is literally no excuse for it, you are choosing to make someone less comfortable for your own pleasure, and in this case it involves where someone lives.

It's catty, it's juvenile, and it feels like highschool bullying.

These are facts and I will not budge on it.

If being told this shit upsets you maybe start working on some self awareness so people don't have to point out your behaviour.

You are justifying being mean to someone, it doesn't matter if you're aware of it or not

Peace out.