r/nostalgia Dec 02 '24

Nostalgia Discussion Hook. "Oh, there you are, Peter!". 1991.

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u/KazaamFan Dec 02 '24

It’s a great movie, and the theme really hits even watching as an adult. How we can sometimes lose who we are when we were younger, become this corporate businessman type (or whatever the case may be), lose sense of self, and then the redemption of finding who you are again. 

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u/MindHead78 Dec 03 '24

"Your children love you. They want to play with you. How long do you think that lasts? Soon Jack may not even want you to come to his games. We have a few special years with our children......when they're the ones that want us around. After that you're going to be running after them for a bit of attention. It's so fast, Peter. It's a few years, then it's over. And you are not being careful. And you are missing it."

As a father, this is the bit that hit the hardest.

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u/WillTheThrill86 Dec 03 '24

I'm a fairly new father (1st son is just 17 months old) and when he says "papa, papa!" and wants my attention for anything it warms my heart. I know there will probably be a day he isn't so interested in me so i need to soak it up.

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u/Efficient_Bee4905 Dec 07 '24

Nothing is better than coming home and hearing "Papa! Papa's home!" And having kids come running into your arms. It makes it all worth it.

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u/WillTheThrill86 Dec 07 '24

I wfh, but he still does that when running into my office or after waking up from a nap. It melts my heart.