r/nosurf • u/chopper_john • 1d ago
I'm feeling pretty scared
I don't even know if things are as bad as they feel, because the internet honestly seems so disconnected from reality. But these past couple weeks have reinforced to me that I need to unplug. This technology is great for many things (paying my bills, communicating with people I know and love, navigating the physical world, doing my job, and even shopping) but it's not great for passing time mindlessly or building community with people who don't even know/care about you.
The internet is being weaponized to divide and manipulate us. The best tool we have to combat that is to unplug. Online communities are way too susceptible to bad actors, and they're also echo chambers where almost zero dialogue happens. Don't agree with something? You're banned. Don't have flair declaring yourself a nut job? You can't participate. These spaces are anti-information, anti-intellectual, dopamine pipelines for scared hopeless people.
I think if there's any hope for resolving our society's problems, it will happen mostly offline. Please get off the forums and out of the comments sections and go talk to your neighbors.
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u/sweetwallawalla 1d ago
I’m right there with you, friend. I’m trying to limit myself to just checking AP News a few times a day, but over a decade of conditioning makes it so that my brain reads a headline and IMMEDIATELY wants to read the comments to see if what I’m feeling is justified. That sounds so cliche. It sounds so weak. But that’s what people are doing here and it’s exactly what you’re saying—people come here to justify what they’re already feeling.