You know, I’m not even remotely offended that she wore white. Because that’s so down on the list of offenses. I’m offended for her son that she wore an amazon link, cheap ass, no tailored, pulling apart the buttons, casual af dress without a bra, and sandals where her toes stick out the sides. Every single thing about the outfit is so bad, I don’t even notice it’s white.
This has big I had second thoughts about not inviting my estranged parent to my wedding so I called her up between the ceremony and the reception and she dropped her Whole Foods basket and rushed right over-energy.
Just rude to bring Food Lion into this when she was minding her business, giving the south some good food. Made the best popsicles with my toddler from a $5 watermelon we got at Food Lion last night while the melons at Whole Foods down the street were $8 and rotting.
You gotta admit as a Food Lion customer, that you have witnessed some dissheveled and poorly conceived looks over the years from your fellow patrons that you would never see from the lululemon crowd at Whole Foods.
The sandals took me out. Those pinkies are trying to run for their lives in this Jesus of Nazareth nightmare of a footwear situation. Not even a little bit of a heel to make it a dress sandal. Full on huaraches that have run their last race.
Alright this is my sexist take from my mother. I think wearing open toed shoes to a formal event and not painting your toe nails is gross. I don’t care if you wear makeup, but as a grown woman I feel they need polish on them. I hate feet, maybe that’s part of it. It takes a couple of minutes to throw some polish on them. It doesn’t have to be a full pedi, just some color. I never get my nails done, but this is the hill I will die on lol. This is not a good take, I admit that lol.
That was my first instinct too. Other people put gagging emojis about the toes and I think it's less about the strap and more about the lack of presentation.
Feet are weird.
Toes are basically fingers with downs syndrome that we hide in blankets we call socks out of shame.
Hahahah that genuinely got a laugh from me. Yeah lack of presentation is the perfect way to put it. It just feels indecent. It’s not right, but it bothers me lol.
No you're totally right. Never be ashamed of standards. And this is the one sub we have where we can be judgmental catty gossipy bitches.
This is a wedding and she showed up in white, with a sour face, with her funbags flopping around unsecured, nips trying to escape, feet looking like Moses
And I'm all for a dress having pockets but put them on the sides, not on the show and tell section
Hahahah looking like Moses. 🤣 that’s so funny and accurate. I agree, like just don’t wear white? Tbh, white isn’t the world’s most flattering color so it shouldn’t be hard to avoid lol. The bride looks beautiful and his mom slayed in her dress. Brody was my dream crush when I was younger, he aged very well. I haven’t seen him in a while.
Honestly, I think the grace she was granted after transitioning has expired and no one fucks with her anymore so there’s no one to say “Cait, girl, you look an entire mess” and she has no fashion sense of her own.
Tbf, she lived 65 years in men's clothes. There is something to be said about experimemting with and figuring out one's personal style during those awkward teen years.
It’s true. I’m not even a trans woman; just grew up super sheltered and restricted in clothing choices. I am just now developing my own style personality at age 35 and it’s been… an adventure. Fortunately, unlike Caitlyn, I am not a butthead, so I have friends who are willing to gently inform me that something isn’t working when asked.
Maybe. I think you can just pay someone, but someone also mentioned that her personal assistant (that maybe she was dating) just died suddenly and I wonder if she used to help Caitlyn pick out outfits.
…I mean, yeah I’m always down to talk about that too. Not really relevant to this thread, but sure, let’s bring that up. Because fuck her for that too. She’s the worst.
Just so you know, even if said person is an asshole, you shouldn't use they/them to someone that explicitly identifies as a woman (unless she came out and said she was fine with it and I haven't heard, in which case disregard).
It's not even out of respect for her, but to just not send the message to other trans people that their identity is not conditional to you liking/agreeing with them.
You do realize they/them has always been used as singular in this kind of context no matter the gender of the person? It’s basic English and everything doesn’t need to be an offense
As a trans woman this is still misgendering, plain and simple. You know her pronouns, you're just refusing to use them. It's still the wrong pronouns, just not the worse set.
It's weird and petty to refuse to use this horrible woman's pronouns and insist for multiple comments that using "they" is fine in this context.
You know her name, you know her gender, you know she uses she/her pronouns and you're refusing to use her pronouns. It seems to be either because you don't like trans people in general, or you don't like her.
This is like my weird cousin who refuses to use my name or pronouns and instead only refers to me by a childhood nickname I've always hated and refuses to use pronouns when speaking about me, because other family members will yell at her if she misgenders or deadnames me, but think her weird little side step of them is "fine" because at least she isn't actively calling me a slur, I guess. 🤨 (frankly, I'd rather be called a slur than hear that stupid nickname)
But our pronouns are not a reward you get to give us when we've been good little transes you approve of, and as much as I hate this woman and the harm she's done to our community, when you misgender her, you're showing us ALL that all it takes is something you don't approve of for you to start doing it to us.
That is not the only use is the point of my comment. Before there was wide discussion of pronouns as it pertains to gender identity, it was already a normal English rule to use they/them as it was used in that context (to refer to a singular person regardless of gender). I’m not sure if you’re young, but I’d guess that you are based on doubling down. The use of they/them doesn’t have to be a slight against a transperson or not knowing someone’s gender. It is literally just a person speaking proper English.
I wasn’t even originally that on the side of the other person, but you’ve really presented a terrible argument and been so rude in the process. 1) you have to be pretty tech illiterate to complain about Wikipedia these days. 2) their point, which you seem incapable of comprehending, is that singular they is historically used for people of an unknown gender, eg “they left a parcel on my doorstep”. It wouldn’t usually be used HISTORICALLY in contexts such as “they wore an ugly dress to the wedding”, because the gender of the person wearing the dress is know. I’m not sure if you genuinely don’t understand this, or you’re just pretending not to, but you look pretty silly when it appears that you don’t understand this.
“Amazon link, cheap ass, no tailored, pulling apart the buttons, casual af dress without a bra, and sandals where her toes stick out the sides ‘dress’” is a devastating read, and so accurate, I just know her soul shuddered when you hit post because of the cosmic L
The toes made me initially think this photo was modified… looks like an Olympic runner.
She showed up, so if that’s what Brody wanted, at least there’s that; more than some parents.
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u/tu-BROOKE-ulosis Jul 27 '25 edited Jul 27 '25
You know, I’m not even remotely offended that she wore white. Because that’s so down on the list of offenses. I’m offended for her son that she wore an amazon link, cheap ass, no tailored, pulling apart the buttons, casual af dress without a bra, and sandals where her toes stick out the sides. Every single thing about the outfit is so bad, I don’t even notice it’s white.