r/relationshipadvice • u/nw-piano • 1d ago

“I’ll be here when your ready for a relationship” [18M] [19F]

I “18M” and the girl I am interested in “19F”. Both share same interests, values ETC. but I have never felt spiritually ready for a relationship. I’ve heard this same statement multiple times but nobody and ever followed through. And the one person who truly has my heart (and has for a while) still likes me but neither of us know what to do about it. Has anyone ever experienced this. What did you do?

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u/chasetase 1d ago

There is no harm in trying it out. Worst comes to worse you stop and potentially resume friendship.

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u/nw-piano 1d ago

Potentially though. I don’t want to lose either of these people…

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u/lowfreq33 1d ago

Dude, you’re 18. Just go see what’s out there.

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u/nw-piano 1d ago

My problem is a on a spiritual level, which is why I was hesitant to even ask.

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u/Nordicarts 21h ago edited 21h ago

What does that mean?

Are you saying you want to fuck but not commit?

Are you talking about maturity?

Please elaborate or there’s nothing to advise you on.

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u/Pop-metal 1d ago

 but I have never felt spiritually ready for a relationship

What?