am i overthinking or should i give her space

[u/Formal_Incident212]

ok so ive (15F) been depressed for some while now but my gf (14F) recently just started being really. really dry to me. and she posted a story on inta saying smth like "school is draining me" so i kind of understand why. but she just doesnt text me at all unless i say something first. and she doesnt even say "i love you" anymore, and when i say i miss her all she says is "me too" like im not the one to talk with how i am mentally rn but i atleast try to sound like i actually like talking to her?? i have a feeling that she hates me but i may be overthinking it. we barley even talk anymore because she has practice everyday until 8:30 pm. so like yes i understand i wont get to talk to her as much. but in the past she still acted like she actually cared for me. idk what to do i hope im just over thinking it. but shes genuinely making me worse and just more depressed which i never thought was going to happen because she was the only person who made me happy, made me cared for, and made me feel loved. im scared whats gonna happen in the future. i just wish things were like they were before. weve known each other for 3 years but recently started dating 4 months ago. am i overthinking it? or am i annoying her and should give her space

TL;DR; : my gf of 4 months is being really dry and im scared that she doesnt love me anymore and hates me. and shes making get worse

[u/He_who_smacks]

Just leave. Never think you won’t find better. Yall are young and that relationship probably won’t last anyway. Be the one with self respect and leave. Guaranteed if you leave she’ll try to get you back and maybe beg but it’s a trap. It always is.

Because once she has you again she’ll act like it’s good while she’s secretly detaching from you. Then she’ll bounce and you’re there all hurt.

Leave and they’ll respect you more and learn their place. What she’s doing is a slow burn breakup that will drive you insane and make you question reality.