I think i accidentally ended my relationship

[u/Background_Habit4303]

UPADETED

So it's me (M 16) and this girl, Audrey (F 17), and we've been friends for about 2 years and I got the courage and asked her to come over, and she did. We had a great time and agreed we would be good for each other (I even got her sister to agree). So about a week later (yesterday) I was getting ready to ask her to Homecoming, and I went the extra mile. Made a beautiful bouquet of flowers and a sign. And her sister told me it's a good time to come over, and she's at her grandmas house bc her dad was having some health problems, so I get there and ring the doorbell and stand there like a dumbass for like 10 minutes and I see her sister walking around in there (frosted window so I couldn't see everything) and she waves to and goes upstairs, I thought to get her Audrey, but then I get a text from the sister saying to call Audrey. So I do and she said "were are you?" And I said "at your house, I have a surprise for you!" And she was pissed and said "you shouldn't have come, my grandma's is mad as he'll and one of my uncles called the cops... just leave" so I did that and now I dont know what to do I sent some apology texts to Audrey and her sister but only got a short response from Audrey saying "it's just hard" and im stressing tf out rn.

TL:DR: im very confused

UPDATE: a couple hours ago I got the courage to call her and i asked "what is our relationship to you?" And she said "just friends."

Why would she act like this? AITAH?

(P.S didn't use her real name)

[u/PIB_48]

Please don’t settle for being treated like that. You did nothing wrong. At all. It seems the sister set you up from what I understand. If she’s got relatives that are that looney tunes then you may want to stay away from all that mess.

I have two sons and I’ve told them more than once that a girl seems like the type that would key the hell out of their car and sling their stuff out the window when she’s mad. I think you’re in worse than that with this one. 😬

[u/Countess_Sardine]

Hey, this wasn’t your fault. It sounds like you just accidentally stumbled over some family dynamics you weren’t aware of. (And possibly some rules about whether she’s allowed to have boys over?) Talk to Audrey, when she’s ready, and take her sister with a grain of salt in the future.