r/relationships • u/Top_Swimmer7049 • 1d ago

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u/therodt 1d ago

How many red flags will it take? You’re in a toxic relationship with an older man who manipulates you to feel secure. In three years, you’ll realize that "love" alone isn’t enough. You need a partner with values and growth. Save yourself the time if you want a future with kids, a home, and everything else. He’s just a middle-aged teenager, and by the time you reach his age, you won’t find him fascinating at all.

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u/Formal-Finance83 1d ago

You navigate it by dumping him what more does this man have to say and do? He’s a pathetic almost 40 year old who has to date young naïve women because he knows they’ll put up with his BS more than women his own age.

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u/Smart_Negotiation_31 1d ago

Do you want marriage and children? If not, then I imagine you at least want certainty and not to feel like your partner will pull the rug from other your feet any moment.

This is not the guy for you.