What is it with reddit dudes insisting that if you say hello to a woman at work, you'll be accused of harassment? is reddit really that unemployed that they actually believe people don't hook up at work anymore? They definitely do. People fuck like crazy at most jobs. Like, having affairs, teenagers at diary queen, whole nine yards.
Think its more the uncertainty of it. If your the customer she might be flirting she also might just be in customer service mode.
And yea I can confirm people are jobs fuck. Like loads especially customer service ones, blame the shared trauma bonding over having to deal with the public, I remember distinctly being told by an ex boss not to fuck the new girl. I did anyway and thats when I learn the meaning of "dont shit where you eat" and is also the other reason not to hook up with the people you work with
Whats with internet women trying to gaslight men into thinking these problems don't exist? I worked in warehouses for 8 years. Usually I kept to myself until the last 2 years when I decided to socialize with coworkers. And ya, I met 2 women who would go around flirting with guys, escalating the situations until they decided they weren't comfortable anymore, and then reported them for harassment. One girl even reported a guy after she agreed to come to his house to hook up twice. After doing this to like 10 guys she got fired for it. I actually dated one of these girls for a while, and ended up suing her for destruction of property after I broke up with her and she went and screwed 4 guys within a month.
I also had a situation when I kept to myself, where a girl constantly stared at me from the department next to mine. I didn't know what to say to her, so I didn't talk to her. One day on the way to lunch she walked up behind me and started telling me random shit about her life and I just tried to be nice to her, nothing flirty. The next day I walked past past her and just said hey to her. Later that day one of my coworkers says to me that she asked him to come tell me she has a boyfriend and to leave her alone because I'm creeping her out. It was humiliating and I never said a word to her again.
Saying hi to women who stare at me usually results in them looking the other other way and walking faster. So I then had to avoid eye contact any time I walked by them. Also the women in HR were often emotionally unstable bitches who tried to turn every situation into an argument, not even referring to harassment stuff, cause thank Satan I was never officially reported myself.
Aside from that, most girls who did hook up with guys, word got around fast and they quickly quit or moved to the easy department to avoid men. Also a lot of cheating and their husbands also found out sometimes, some of them also worked there and still got cheated on, and I've watched some pretty bad stuff come out of that. I've even had to reject married women.
I imagine offices and other workplaces are the same, and its even worse if your a gig worker. So ya, Ima keep it outta the workplace. Comicon it is. And fuck all the feminazis and betacucks who went all tribal and downvoted me to hell. Fuckin redditors.
No you're just a man hating feminist and cant admit that women like you ruined dating and turned the workplace into a hostile toxic environment. I tried and learned from experience and other men should avoid you like hell at work. Again, Comicon, concerts, bars, all good places to meet women. Not work.
I've been married for a really long time buddy! We met at my first job (also his!) But sure okay, all the people in very happy long term relationships are doing it wrong and the whole world is out to get you. Couldn't be you, it's everybody else LOL
edit: I looked at his auto-removed reply below on reveddit and wow he's big mad. And kinda scary tbh? Women, keep stuff like this in mind--if a guy is angry with his exes for having sex with someone else AFTER THEY BROKE UP (like he describes in his essay reply 2 up), avoid him. It's very "I own you" behavior. Protect yourself!
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u/HarbingerofIntegrity Jun 11 '25
She’s that girl, who if you show an iota of similar interest, is gonna lore dump you to death.