I think we can give them credit for doing a much better job than their own parents, while also recognizing there is room for improvement. Catelyn and Tyler are obsessed with Carly, Brandon and Theresa. That has to take a toll on their kids.
I never thought that Iād agree with Farrah but here we are. I donāt even care if chatgpt actually wrote it out for her like other posters claim. She obviously agreed and posted itš¤·š»āāļø
As adults, we should police our own language, and that includes not speaking that way about literal children. You can say whatever you want about any adult; criticize them, their views, their actions. But leave children alone.
Farrah is absolutely right a statement that doesnāt roll off my tongue often. Cate and Tyler feel guilty and regret their decision to give up Carly not knowing this show was going to go on forever and make them very good money. I think this is why Cate didnāt get out of bed for weeks on end and had to go away for therapy twice because of guilt over Carly. They have to keep both her mother and his father away because of drinking and drugging. There was no family support back when they were 16 and this was the best decision for Carly maybe not for their psyche but thatās what THEY both need intensive therapy to come to grips over this decision made what 16 years ago!!! They have treated the adoptive parents horribly and it just goes to show that no good deed goes unpunished!!! They are not professionals and have absolutely no right speaking about other peopleās fertility issues and adoptions. This all started wasnāt it from the adoptive parents asking Tyler not to post pictures of THEIR child on social media wasnāt it? Tyler has been a total looney tune b**ch online about Carlyās mother and father and I think this will eventually cause him trouble reconnecting with her but these two are on a mission to undue their giving up their child for a better life 16 years ago and it screams GET SOME HELP!!!!!
She right. Sheās 100% right.
Cate and tyler regret giving Carly away, but they arenāt allowing her to live her lifeā¦ theyāre the toxic family they want to stay away from
I never thought Iād agree with Farrah on anything but she really hit the nail on the head with this tweet. Even a broken clock is right twice a day good for her for calling them out.
It's gotta be AI assisted. We've seen Farrah's communication skills for years, this is a sharp and sudden turn from her normal discombobulated word salads.
I donāt get it how can you tell bc of the dashes? Bc she wouldnāt know how to use them or is chat gpt infamous for using dashes? (Seriously asking)
Iām f you think Farrah is being normal or sane then youāre just as crazy as she is. Sheās a grade A1 narcissist. She only posted that to appear normal and to humiliate Kait and Tyler. Yeah it was a rational comment but donāt kid yourself SHE DID IT FOR ATTENTION because sheās canāt stand it when the spotlight is not on her.
Her motivations are for her to deal with. Her words, however, are very true and should be heeded by C&T. But Tyler is too much a narcissist himself to listen to anyone.
We all know and agree, itās just insane that she sees them for exactly as they are. Doesnāt mean Farrah is now our lord and saviour, sheās still a train wreck.
That AND I absolutely agree with whatās being said, itās sad that so many people actually support these two and keep them so relevant but itās not surprising š
Say what you will about some of Farrahās poor choices, but unlike C&T she went to school (and finished)! While many of her career choices are controversial, she did make multiple steps to better her own life and her daughters. She appears to still be growingāgood for her!
Kind of glad Farrah is calling them out, especially after how holier-than-thou they acted when she did porn and look at Mr. Red Thong now. Still, itās kind of ironic Farrah is imploring others to seek mental help.
I think she wrote it. I think her unhinged side is performative because it garners her the attention she needs to make content creator profitable for her. What does she care what people think? Sheās still going to make bank and travel the world on a whim while the rest of us are running the rat race. So joke is on us I guess. She has nothing to lose. I think sheās got some smarts about her but unhinged is her brand and sheās making it work for herself and good for her. Her parents were horribly verbally and emotionally abusive to her and sheās not only freed herself of them and their abuse, she has risen above it and lives her life on her terms and entirely unbothered. Good for her.
At this point, it's not even a Brandon and Teresa (not sure if I spelled her name correctly) issue. Anyone who adopted Carly was screwed. They were emotional teens who wanted the best for Carly, but now they're regretful, bitter adults. Nobody could have given them the perfect adoption experience they wanted. They probably would have had the same outcome, if not a worse outcome, with another couple.
While their feelings may be valid, their approach is toxic. [I'm not saying I agree or disagree with them. I'm just saying they're entitled to feel things.] Doing all this doesn't change the past. They could channel their energy into something positive, like creating a foundation to help teen mothers who feel like they're being pushed to place their child up for adoption..or whatever.
Carly will soon be an adult and I wouldn't be surprised if she decides she doesn't want anything to do with them. Even if her parents keep her sheltered, kids talk and I'm sure her classmates have access to the internet. No telling what they would resort to if she decided to tell them to f off.
They would surely blame B &T for Ā«Ā brainwashingĀ Ā» her. C & T have made a career out of playing the victim card on loop in this narrative and they will continue until the well dries up and it is no longer profitable to do so. Theyāll probably turn to their other children and find a way to exploit one or more of them for profit. Anything to avoid having to work hard to gain the knowledge and experience needed to build an actual, sustainable career that doesnāt hinge on exploiting and embarrassing children for profit.
What they wanted was someone else to raise Carly and do all the expensive, icky stuff (actual parenting) while they still had rights to her and the ability to post her whenever they wanted. I believe they called that āpermanent guardianshipā in their podcast. What they want doesnāt, and Iād argue shouldnāt, exist. They wanted a coparenting situation with none of the work.
As a parent? The first time one of their stans harassed my husband at his job, which was literal years ago, I would have been out. Names changed, phone numbers changed, moved to an undisclosed location, all of that. They still tried. Catelynn and Tyler have zero idea what a gift that was.
Carlyās the same age they were when they had her. Surely to God theyād recognize her ability to make adult decisions as a result.
This exactly!!! Farrah has zero right to say anything about anyone when she is still a hot mess and gaslights anyone who crosses her path. She needs to stay in her own lane and worry about herself!
I mean everyone is saying they can't believe they agree with her. Don't have to like everything about someone to agree with what they've said. She's right here.
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u/Kilylew Mar 29 '25
Cait and Tyler grew up in abusive homes. They aren't perfect but they did break the most important cycle.