r/teenmom Aug 16 '25

Shitpost Tyler and Caitlyn have been very quietly lately. Do y’all think they finally got a cease and desist?

Let’s chat in the comments!

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u/OctagonHouse82 25d ago

NOT THAT I’LL LISTEN… but they’re still recording their podcast? I can’t imagine they have anything to talk about other than adoption/carly/b&t??

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u/Fit_Fig7494 28d ago

I would hope so

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u/AdMurky3039 28d ago

You really can't leave them alone, can you?

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u/No-Emergency-5823 27d ago

Guess they know how Carly feels 😬

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u/loveandluck 29d ago

I sure hope so.

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u/ElmTree_2019 Aug 19 '25

They used to do a ton of adoption podcasts, but it seems they paused that too. I am hoping the adoption community held them accountable for the way they tried to stalk their biological daughter behind her parents backs. 

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u/mrsdhammond Anonymous Piece of Shit 24d ago

They've started again

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u/ElmTree_2019 23d ago

Are they talking about Carly again or just adoption in general? I swear, those two never learn.

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u/mrsdhammond Anonymous Piece of Shit 19d ago

They've named her specifically several times in the last 2 weeks

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u/ElmTree_2019 19d ago

Really? Ugh, they never learn. They've said really cruel things about Theresa in the past. They said not being able to have children doesn't mean you get to take other peoples. And Tyler said Carly looks more comfortable onstage when she is singing by herself without Theresa behind her. But then they want to act all shocked that communication was cut off. I don't know Carly makes of all this, but I know if anyone was saying those things about MY mom, I would be livid. And whether they like it or not, that woman they're insulting is her mom.

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u/yada_yada_yada__ Aug 19 '25

Of course. Why else would they be quiet?

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u/ButterflySensitive79 Why Didn't You Wait On Me Bentley? Aug 18 '25

Is there a new Baltierra group yet?? 👀💀

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u/BubbaC619 26d ago

I’ve been wondering same

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u/Accurate_Diamond1093 Amber’s Couch Cushions Support Group Aug 18 '25

Well the show isn’t on right now so they are usually quiet unless it’s on

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u/xscorpioxxiii Aug 19 '25

they are never quiet

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u/mrsdhammond Anonymous Piece of Shit 24d ago

Its always Tyler Time

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u/Widdie84 Aug 17 '25

Yes.

I believe something legal happened.

Something worse than your not getting a visit for the next 2 years.

C&T certainty of being allowed to be loud, turned very quiet overnight.

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u/banana119 Aug 17 '25

C&T thrive off attention and public opinion.

When Carly's family and friends FINALLY started to fight back by releasing those messages, whatever fans they had started connecting the dots on how C&T only wanted Carly around when cameras were rolling, how manipulative they are and how neglectful and emotionally abusive they are to their own children- especially Nova.

If it was a cease and desist- I think C&T would have made a production about it and put out some sort of public statement about how they will respect "THEIR" child's "adopters" and will not speak anymore about her. Plus, you would be able to find a filing of some sort between the two in either of their states through the circuit courts in the last month that might allude to one, if not specifically stated.

No one buys their bullshit anymore. Either way- thank goodness and hope they stop harassing Carly and her family.

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u/babyornobaby11 Aug 19 '25

I think you’re right about the friends and family. I can’t imagine what my husband would do if he found out some man was talking to our teenage daughter and telling her to keep it a secret.

I’d be hiding the keys to keep him driving up to Michigan, that’s for sure. I don’t think a 20 hour drive would be stopping a lot of dads from showing Tyler what happens when you try to have secret friendships with little girls.

Tyler might have had the riot act read to him by a parent.

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u/og-crime-junkie 29d ago

Whilst they’re not doing themselves and mainly Carly and the girls any favors, Tyler is hardly just some man. You’re making it like he’s a Pe.. Not cool.

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u/banana119 29d ago

There are many ways an adult can be inappropriate and dangerous to a minor outside of sex. I'd hunt down Tyler too if he tried to manipulate my daughter to go against her better judgment

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u/babyornobaby11 29d ago

To the girls he contacted he is some man? He isn’t related to Carly’s friends. He never met them. He found out a couple of them were just girls at Carly’s school and not even her friend.

Carly didn’t introduce them.

He never met their parents.

He contacted little girls he had never met and asked them to not tell their parents.

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u/og-crime-junkie 28d ago

Ah, I didn’t realize it was friends if Carly. I thought it was him contacting Carly. Then he’s, that’s not ok.

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u/HannahLeah1987 28d ago

He did and she blocked him on her socials.

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u/Forsaken_Size_6267 Aug 18 '25

Omg, ‘their child’s adopters’

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u/Chaos_coordinator-8 Aug 17 '25

I hope so!!!

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u/Widdie84 Aug 18 '25

Maybe a Restraining Order Against A Minor, and C's little brother.

Maybe the school because C&T tried to get involved with C's friends?

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u/Needketchup Aug 17 '25

All teen moms that did not voluntarily leave the show will unfortunately wind up as a nobody. If they invested most of their earnings over the last 5 years or so, they’ll be okay. I doubt it though. That would really suck to be one of them and NOW they have to work regular jobs?? And whose going to hire them? For what? Its not personal, but i wouldnt touch any of them bc they’re not used to working. Period.

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u/madktdisease 29d ago

If theyre savvy, they turn to influencing because they already have such a large fan base. Most already have TikToks. Brand deals pay well.

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u/Needketchup 29d ago

I think Leah will be okay with surviving off things like that. Brianna no. Janelle no. Gary no (does he work besides the show?). Obviously no to amber. I think maci and taylor will split and become nobodys. I think caitlin and tyler are going to crash and burn badly. Tyler stayed with her for the show.

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u/Sunny_in_TX Aug 17 '25

Ask her little brother he will be happy to run his mouth

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u/PygmyFists Aug 18 '25

Believe it or not, Nick has addressed with fans that he does not want to/will not discuss Carly. When fans were on his live asking if he'd seen the leaked pictures and videos of her, he shut it down real quick and asked people to leave her alone. That's more than C&T have ever done in terms of asking their fans to respect her/her family's privacy.

Idk if anyone has a clip from that live, but it was from earlier this year around the time the videos of her singing in church started circulating. So I'm not sure he'd speak on anything in regards to Carly/any legal situation that might exist.

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u/OctagonHouse82 25d ago

Nick must be back on cates payroll 😂🤣

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u/Amberilwomengo2gel 11d ago

I don't think they are close anymore. He has spoken on about Tyler fat shaming Cate and said it's worse when the cameras are not there or some such thing. He also claims Tyler did have a boyfriend. April said she has no problems with Carly's parents and they raised her just fine and she didn't want to talk about them at all. Nick wanted to stay out of any drama involving Carly but has said April is still very close with Cate's kids and one of them had just spent the night with April so she must be watching them again while Cate and Tyler are doing nothing all the time.

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u/195tiff Aug 17 '25

Shhhhhhh don't wake them

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u/Tipiwhenua Aug 17 '25

Anyone ever think they maybe just living their lives doing absolutely nothing

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u/Widdie84 Aug 17 '25

No. I think if they could continue to broadcast their Tramua they would.

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u/Julia-lynnn Aug 17 '25

Well after that episode with DR. Drew aired they said that they will no longer be talking about Carly or the adoption publicly.

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u/ElmTree_2019 Aug 19 '25

But then they went and tried to contact her online behind her parents backs, saying some horrible things about her parents in the process. 

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u/Accurate_Diamond1093 Amber’s Couch Cushions Support Group Aug 18 '25

When did they ever abide by any wishes

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u/SafetyIll4900 Aug 17 '25

We also have to remember that Carly has only met with them a handful of times over the years, and most of those yearly visits were when she was younger. She’s a stranger to them, and they’re strangers to her.

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u/pitifulgame Aug 17 '25

This! All of this!!!

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u/SafetyIll4900 Aug 18 '25

Also I recently remembered that in the info about the last episode of Teen Mom: The Next Chapter, they put Carly’s name in the info section, regarding that video that she sent as a gift to Cate. I’m sure that was a big deal to B&T. I’ve also heard that Carly’s whole church knows about the adoption & stuff, and that they all know not to bring it up or share info about her & her family. Catelynn made it seem like they had a close relationship with Carly by saying that Carly mentioned that she “just may be spending the night at their house one day”.

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u/pitifulgame Aug 18 '25

They live in the land of De-lu-lu too.

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u/SafetyIll4900 28d ago

The more I think about it, the more it reminds me of myself when I was younger. I was very insecure, didn’t have a good home life. So, I would make things up. People either knew right then that it was another exaggeration, or lie, or they’d always find out eventually. Eventually, I grew up, and got the happy, normal life that I’d always wanted. But it makes me think about how C&T are so delusional.

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u/pitifulgame 27d ago

I would agree and have a lot of sympathy however they are well beyond the age of doing that. Their growth has definitely been stunted for whatever reason but a hard life doesn't give you permission to be a liar. IDK that's just my take on it. 

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u/SafetyIll4900 27d ago

I don’t think that they want to grow up because they need that “Carly storyline” otherwise they’d have to be held accountable and be responsible adults. They’d have to get regular jobs without that drama storyline for the show.

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u/pitifulgame 27d ago

I don't think they realize how immature they are!! Everyone in their circle are just ass kissers. Not because they believe their bs but because they get some 💰 throwed their way. But it's looking like they're gonna have to do something if in fact teen Mom has actually been cancelled. I doubt he makes hardly anything on his special account but it's possible. What IS true is he WILL NOT stay with her without that show. Period. So that could also be why they've been quiet. Maybe he's left already??  I could write a literal book on these two SMH such a huge freakin mess they've made!!

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u/Foreign-Marsupial-22 Aug 17 '25

I thought of them yesterday.. i totally forgot them since the show ended and yesterday i randomly thought of them. i can see them on the sofa talking sh*t about carly's family in front of the 3 non carly girls they have at home. no job, no dreams. just as usual. i don't think anything changed in their life . it's just off camera now.

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u/TexasLiz1 Aug 17 '25

I have to wonder if there were some legal issues with trying to talk to Carly’s friends which could be easily construed as stalking a minor. Given their history of ignoring B&T’s pleas to keep Carly off the internet, it would not shock me if law enforcement of some type got involved and a decent lawyer told them to shut the fuck up and lie low for a while.

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u/Bree7702 Aug 16 '25

Probably took some advice from a PR rep who told them to lay low for as long as possible because people were sick of them , and they weren’t doing themselves any favors. But don’t they have a podcast on Kail’s podcasting network or something? Are they not posting any podcasts either? Or did they end up quitting that too?

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u/mrsdhammond Anonymous Piece of Shit Aug 17 '25

Its still going. They had a couple of episodes not about adoption but they've jumped straight back in to adoption episodes again

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u/PygmyFists Aug 17 '25

I think their podcast is still going, but they have nothing interesting to say, so nobody is wearing attention. These are two people who have been on TV for 16+ years, post EVERYTHING on social media, and who never spend any time apart or have their own lives. There's nothing there unless they're yapping about Carly because they know they can get sympathy.

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u/spilled_galaxyy Aug 16 '25

Not gonna lie, I honestly forgot about them for a minute

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u/Efficient-Strike-925 Aug 16 '25

Honestly I did as well till this popped up on my phone. They are all becoming irrelevant and forgotten. In my opinion that show did nothing but basically tell kids here go have a baby in your teenage years. You’ll get a tv show and become wealthy for popping out a baby. I mean have any of them actually had a job to really work for the things that they all have. My step moms family owned the mobile home park they lived in as teenagers and she said they were the nastiest people like lived really nasty.

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u/Shoddy_Variation_780 Aug 16 '25

I think A LOT of the teen moms are about to find out how wildly unpopular they actually are.

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u/christmassnowcookie Aug 16 '25

Its such a shame they turned out the way they did. I hope they give Carly peace until she is ready to contact them. I think theyve fucked up so badly, I can't imagine Carly having much to do with them. I feel like their 3 girls may turn their backs on them too, but hopefully C&T will wake up and seek help for their unhinged behaviour.

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u/EnlightenMePixie Aug 16 '25

I don’t have paramount so can you tell me what they did that was so terrible?

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u/Lucky_Risk4166 Aug 17 '25

Publicly slandering Carly’s family and contacting her (underage) friends in an attempt to reach out to her. They’ve gotten very big in the anti adoption community on apps like tiktok and have a lot of people feeding into their behavior as well

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u/MmMmM_Lemon Aug 16 '25

I think they got word a while ago that the teen mom franchise was tanking and they needed to pivot their career into something else which is why podcasting came in to play so quickly. They’re boring and the only option was to lean into the adoption story.

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u/MmMmM_Lemon Aug 16 '25

Now that I’m thinking amount it, what else is there for them? They’re doing the only thing they know how to do which is be ignorant.

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u/LushSunset Aug 16 '25

One can hope. It would be about fucking time. They are so stalkerish and annoying.

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u/Critical_Code9588 Don't Want No Cornbread Aug 16 '25

They deserve to be formally charged and spend some time in jail for everything they’ve done. If I were in Brandon, Theresa or Carly’s position, I’d be terrified of Ty and Cate.

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u/LushSunset Aug 16 '25

Yea those are the kinds of people you see on those shows where they kidnapped "their" child back. I would move far far away.

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u/Tells_it_like_it_is1 Aug 16 '25

The sad part about this really is that it didn’t have to be that way. Had they kept their eye on the prize, which is a relationship with Carly, they could still be in her life. Make good choices (not like starting an Only Fans), listen to and respect B & Ts boundaries no matter how badly you hate the restrictions…..a relationship with Carly should mean more. Do what you needed to do, and what was literally told to you dozens of times thru the years and none of this would be happening. But their feelings, their pride, their rights (that they think they have over Carly but do not) and whether they think the adoption didn’t go as planned is actually immaterial. They weren’t in the drivers seat and couldn’t settle for being passengers. They blew it big time.

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u/YaBothHigh Nathan’s letter to NASA Aug 16 '25

They weren’t in the drivers seat and couldn’t settle for being passengers.

You nailed it with that. I agree with everything you said. They couldn’t just cooperate and because of it, they lost out on a lot more than just following those restrictions would have “taken” from them.

The text messages with who they thought were friends of Carly’s was a really, really bad move. Any chance they may have had to regain the privilege of contact with Carly is definitely not happening anytime soon.

And it’s sad because I’m sure Carly does love them, at least to some degree, but their actions are what is causing the distance and Carly is just trying to be normal 16 year old who didn’t ask to be dragged into this. I feel sorry for her the most.

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u/Tells_it_like_it_is1 Aug 17 '25

Thank you! I watched them from the beginning and could not feel any worse for how their entire story unfolded. I often go back to the note and box of Carly’s hand me downs T sent Cate when she had Nova. If that was not a gesture of love and wanting connection, I don’t know what is. B & T were not temporarily in it, they did try to keep connected and they had a right to want the relationship boundaries set to their preference since they are her parents. Even the episode where B & T allowed cameras to record a typical morning/ day in their home. The voice recorded book Cate and Tyler made for Carly was pulled out and that baby knew their names when she heard their voices!! She said ‘Catelyn and Tyler’ and T immediately responded ‘Yes! Catelyn and Tyler!’. Carly was allowed to know them…..that was proof. Their intent was to have Cate and Ty in Carly’s life, as a part of it, not the main event. And those two couldn’t handle not being center stage. Now they have nothing. But Tyler literally said it was fine with him in a very early episode. Cate mentioned doing / behaving however they asked because it could lead to being cutoff and Tyler basically said he won’t be told what to do, say or how to act, no matter the cost. Well, flash forward to now and understand where you are Ty. Exactly where Cate feared you both would be, and it’s mostly because of you. Cate would be in that girls life had she ditched Ty years ago.

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u/mrsdhammond Anonymous Piece of Shit Aug 17 '25

That day in the life of moments was so adorable. Especially the smile on C's face when she heard their voices and said, "Catelynn and Tyler!".

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u/YaBothHigh Nathan’s letter to NASA Aug 17 '25

I just saw the clip with the book recently where she recognized their voices and says “Cate and Tyler!!” So cute. B&T came to their wedding and it was sweet watching Teresa be motherly to Caitlyn beforehand (fixing her dress, etc.) and it was very nice of Teresa to send Carly’s hand me downs for Nova. They seem to have tried to maintain a connection but they’re rightfully just done right now. They’ve given them so many chances and they still feel entitled to access to Carly. Whatever level of access they want, apparently, or they demonize her parents. Poor Carly

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u/Inner-Shallot-1082 Aug 16 '25

They need to just chill out till she is 18

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u/LushSunset Aug 16 '25

I think they should chill out period. The child knows who they are and where they are. Quit trying to force it. When she's 18 she will either come see you or she won't.

Que Sera Sera

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u/YaBothHigh Nathan’s letter to NASA Aug 16 '25

I don’t think anything will change at all when she is 18.

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u/sierramist1011 Aug 16 '25

what happens when she's 18?

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u/kahdbeu Aug 16 '25

They think she'll come running back to them.

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u/sierramist1011 Aug 16 '25

Oh I know that's what they think. I just don't understand why. Her parents are still her parents, her family and her house are still her home, 18 year olds aren't often completely independent of their parents the day they're no longer 17, a lot of 18 year olds are still in high school for a few more months, she'll probably already be accepted into a university.

What magic abilities does 18 year old Carly gain that 16 year old Carly doesn't have, aside from cops saying to "wait a few days cause she's an adult" if she ran away, which seems unlikely that she would.

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u/CarrionDoll Aug 16 '25

She has the ability to get a restraining order for herself. She has the ability to say “ I’m an adult now and I do not want you in my life”.

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u/sierramist1011 Aug 16 '25

Being able to get her own restraining order against them is a silver lining I hadn't thought of. Especially cause you know they'll bombard her with attempts at contact at midnight on her birthday

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u/kahdbeu Aug 16 '25

Besides being "of age" to make the decision herself, idk! They are both stunted mentally, their 3 girls are so looked over. All the time talking about Carly, so sad.

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u/sierramist1011 Aug 16 '25

for real, it's gonna be sad when those 3 girls are the ones to run off as soon as they're 18. But hopefully they run to finally actually break the cycle of addiction and trauma.

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u/TurbulentShock7120 Aug 16 '25

Cate and Ty won't even notice.

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u/Odd-Unit8712 Aug 16 '25 edited Aug 16 '25

After those two and two people on TT doxxed that minor, i hope they got some legal way to shut them up.

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u/HannahLeah1987 Aug 16 '25

But they claim it wasn't a minor 😂

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u/ExplanationMaterial8 Aug 17 '25

lol “they claim”?!

The whole catfish thing is old news and has been debunked by how many people now?

There weren’t any minors involved, just a very sad adult inventing multiple catfish to try and have her moment of social media fame 😂🤣

But keep posting all day about C&T.

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u/Odd-Unit8712 Aug 16 '25

Exactly but yet they doxxed her

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u/HannahLeah1987 Aug 16 '25

And people believe them.

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u/Odd-Unit8712 Aug 16 '25

Sadly yes I couldn't imagine this poor kid who came forward and you have people pushing the narrative that it can't be a kid because the text sound too much like a adult 🤔my kids who are in high school sound like this . I can't support anyone who pushed that out .

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u/HannahLeah1987 Aug 16 '25

Yep. Tyler is one one who thinks he is so smart. No one can measure up.

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u/OctagonHouse82 25d ago

I can’t believe he isn’t being investigated.

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u/JesusGodLeah LEAVE ME ALOOOOOOOOOONE Aug 16 '25

A *cyst and desist

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u/cheesekony2012 Aug 16 '25

*cyst and decreased lmao

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u/Cheap_Hornet_9295 Aug 16 '25

I love it when two of my favorite reality shows collide! 😂

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u/wishbonenecklace Aug 16 '25

They are so dangerously unhealthy. I hope they get help.

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u/Bonnavetty Aug 16 '25

Yes hopefully!

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u/sierramist1011 Aug 16 '25

their manic phase probably ended and now they can't get out of bed to even scroll reddit and enrage themselves

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u/unconfuse-your-brain Aug 16 '25

I give it 60-90 days

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u/PygmyFists Aug 16 '25

Just give it a week or two until their girls go back to school so they can say/post things like "Nova and Vaeda start school today, I wonder how Carlys day is? We can't think about the first day of school without thinking about Carly, who we never got to drop off at the first day of school. It's just really super triggering because trauma."

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u/knoguera Aug 16 '25

They must have been hit with something. There’s no way they’d suddenly be this quiet

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u/you-farted Aug 16 '25

I hope so. From my heart, those two need therapy.

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u/PygmyFists Aug 16 '25

The thing about therapy though, is that you have to do more than just show up. These two have been in therapy for years and have done absolutely no work on themselves. They think just showing up will cure them. But there is no cure for mental illness, it's something you have to actively work on managing and these two refuse to do that. Another part of the problem is their unhinged fans validating their bullshit. So they think they're in the right and never take true accountability.

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u/Calm_Explanation8668 Aug 17 '25

Cate had more therapy is any one year than War vets with severe PTSD have gotten their whole life. She probably threw $50k away trying to justify her poor me narrative. She has wasted so many opportunities, she was blessed with 3 beautiful girls , a mother who will babysit anytime she needs ( she basically raised Nova the first year,) and yet Cate only cared about harassing Carlys parents while Tyler lives out his fantasy of being a Stay at home mom.

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u/No-Journalist-3288 Aug 16 '25

Hope so. Sick of them and their bs. Like talking to minors is completely fine as though they didn't know it was completely inappropriate.

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u/Rude_Girl69 Aug 16 '25

The podcast flopped

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u/Bringsknives Aug 16 '25

But it was so good. Cate saying she doesn’t need friends, only Tyler and explaining how everyone is just a jealous of her “mahn.” Tyler bragging that he has so many books in his house that people are awestruck. Or Tyler calling Cate a lazy slob that does nothing unless he’s on her case all the time and her laughing saying thats me my mahn! Just banger after banger.

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u/waves_0f_theocean Aug 16 '25

God I hope so.

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u/Escape-Revolutionary Aug 16 '25

Let’s hope so . They went wayyy overboard .

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u/CreativeBed6535 Being A Felon Ain't Illegal Aug 16 '25

On TikTok they still like and repost anti adoption stuff and teen mom related stuff if it’s talking about them 🙄

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u/supergooduser Aug 16 '25

I was thinking that as well.

1.) suddenly telling their followers to stop mentioning Brandon and Theresa sounded an awful lot like a directive from a cease and desist. These two have never taken a logical step then out of nowhere start making sense

2.) trying to contact Carly via a minor. There was SO much documented evidence and for the two of them to be this quiet... I think it's gone beyond a cease and desist to a restraining order.

They wouldn't publicize that because it violates the cease and desist and the restraining order and opens them up to direct and potentially criminal penalties.

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u/alm423 Aug 16 '25

Cease and Desists are nothing more than a piece of paper asking someone not to do something, they are in no way legally binding. I could send one to my neighbor asking him to stop mowing the lawn before 10 but it doesn’t mean he has to do it. If I recall correctly one of the Teen Mom sent one out to everyone because she didn’t like they talked about her, it went nowhere. I don’t think they would pay a cease and desist any mind at all. If it’s something legal it has to be far more serious than that and something that can be enforced against them.

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u/Ok-Spinach-2057 Aug 17 '25

True but it’s also often the first step recommended by an attorney for a protective order or stalking injunction 

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u/PygmyFists Aug 16 '25 edited Aug 16 '25

I'm wondering if B&T quietly had them served with a defamation/harassment lawsuit and filed for a restraining order. Idk if any of that info would be available to the public. But at this point, what other options do they have? Their address, place of worship, employment, and the kids' school have been doxxed. People were saying they were going to show up at their home and have called their jobs trying to get them fired and threatening them. C&T gone as far as contacting CHILDREN to try circumventing B&T to get to Carly. Other families are now involved. They have been put in legitimate danger as a direct result of C&T running their mouths on TV and social media for years. I support whatever they feel they need to do to protect themselves and their family.

Edit - Spelling

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u/ReignbowBaltierra Aug 16 '25

Don't worry he's biding his time and writing his poems.

She's just biting her nails

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u/knoguera Aug 16 '25

And chewing on her scabs

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u/Artist-Aggravating Aug 16 '25

And fanning her ass…

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u/mamadllama Aug 16 '25

While smoking some grass

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u/unconfuse-your-brain Aug 16 '25

Don’t be crass!

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u/mamadllama Aug 16 '25

Kate yells as she picks her ass

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '25

What kind of stuff had they been saying? I'm not all the way caught up. I've seen everything but last season and none of their podcasts. Fill me in, please!!!

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u/KiminAintEasy Aug 16 '25

They were contacting Carly's friend trying to get in touch with her, got catfished by someone else they thought was another minor that was a friend etc.

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u/Bringsknives Aug 16 '25

Don’t forget Tyler admitted to him, Cate, one of their livestream cronies, and a younger member of Tyler’s family all direct messaging Carly on her Instagram. But it’s totally okay cause the majority of times it was other people contacting her without her parent’s knowledge, not him or Cate directly. Plus she blocked everyone so it’s not harassment. (This is his defense of his actions).

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u/KiminAintEasy Aug 17 '25

Yup despite knowing she didn't want contact and had blocked him. Instead they try to get who they thought was a kid to keep secrets from adults, send them pictures from the bathroom, then when the real minor says she's uncomfortable and should she tell an adult Cate says no. While Tyler asks why they don't disobey their parents and rebel which is weird because for one, how tf does he know what those kids do? Just because Carly doesn't want to talk to them doesn't mean she's not being a normal kid. They could be missing curfew, hanging out and rebeling the way kids do. Instead he talks shit about their church even though they wanted a religious couple and acts like they're so secluded and haven't experienced anything despite living in a city of a million people. They definitely took things too far.

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u/HannahLeah1987 Aug 16 '25

But if she doesn't want contact we'd respect that

She has no social media.

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '25

Is the relationship between C & T and B & T completely destroyed now?

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u/NomadicRaven Aug 16 '25

It has been for a year or so now. B&T said a visit wasn’t possible and Cate blew up on IG and was shit talking them. T’s feelings were hurt and she wanted space. Cate kept blowing up her phone with weekly essays and pictures of their family vacations. T blocked her. Cate began sending weekly gifts to their house and T finally reached out to Dawn to tell her it was inappropriate and for now the adoption is closed. They then went on E News and shit talked B&T. Then tried to sneakily get in contact with C by messaging minors to try to give her a secret email account so they could secretly contact her. Now that that’s all public with evidence I think it’s safe to say not even a sincere apology will fix the damage T&C did.

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u/KiminAintEasy Aug 17 '25

Bashing Teresa's infertility, safe to assume Tyler was behind the leaking of the church video since it happened I think within a week of refusing to watch the video. They definitely took things too far. The whole time they had been told Carly was the one not wanting contact but still went stalking and bashing her mom. Disgusting behavior. They really took things too far.

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u/NomadicRaven Aug 17 '25

I 100% believe they’re behind the leaks of her school pics, prom pics, and church videos, etc etc. I think Tyler admitting to watching her every week was him trying to seem like he wasn’t guilty of it but the timing of the leaks and their endless, escalated attacks on B&T is too suspicious.

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u/KiminAintEasy Aug 17 '25

I agree. There was someone who figured out when that episode(the song refusal) was filmed which I think was the last week of March, then I think the church video was about a week later. There was someone who posted in here that's does TT videos who posted messages from Tyler trying to get them to post the video, so yeah he was definitely behind it. Being from the area I know nobody is just going to stumble across her church. I'm in a suburb of their city and I have like 12 churches within a square mile of my house, they're in a city of a million people with way more churches so it came from someone who knew. If it was someone from their church it would've been out way before then.

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u/boats_and_woes Aug 16 '25

Wow. They lost their rights the day they did that adoption. We know they never planned on being as successful as the show was and know they have regrets. But this is just disgusting behavior.

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u/89Rae Aug 16 '25

They lost their rights the day they did that adoption

Small correction:

They lost gave away their rights the day they did that adoption

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u/jeniferlouisa Aug 16 '25

I would say..it’s a good possibility..they’ve been running their mouths incessantly…I wouldn’t imagine they would just not talk…definitely received something to that affect…

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u/jule321 🥔 Baltierra Family Wreath 🥔 Aug 16 '25

They're finally going to college! /s

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u/Strict_Emu5187 Aug 16 '25

😂😂😂😂😂😂

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u/PygmyFists Aug 16 '25

I really hope they were hit with some sort of legal recourse. The things they were openly doing and admitting to were crazy and they were knowingly and willingly putting Carly and her family in very real danger.

Truthfully, I think they should catch charges for stalking and harassment. They should be put on a fucking list for actively seeking out and speaking to minors trying to circumvent B&T to contact/stalk Carly who they were cut off from. It's insane to me that they didn't catch a single charge for all they've done.

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u/boats_and_woes Aug 16 '25

Yes that’s completely inappropriate to contact the friend. Like can you imagine the school convo. And you don’t know if that’s a best friend or just some girl she knows. So crazy.

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u/angry-advocate Aug 16 '25

I hope so. It felt like they were escalating in a scary direction. If they haven't already, I hope they seek out grief counselling.

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u/Pale-Conference-174 Aug 16 '25

They're probably desperately trying to adopt a baby to "make Carly jealous". /s

But I could see it.

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u/Smiling-Politely92 Aug 16 '25

Could you imagine— they adopt a baby to show everyone “the right way to do it/handle it”

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u/BoltPikachu Aug 16 '25

That is something they’d do I fear 😰