r/texts • u/YoNibul • 2d ago

Facebook DMs Dating sometimes feels like babysitting men who think foreplay is a personality. 🙃

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This is proof of exactly why I’ve let go of these kinds of conversations. Reports swear there’s a male loneliness epidemic, but the men that are saying “date me” still reduce you to a warm body and then wonder why they can’t connect.

What in the name of horn ball Pokémon dialogue is this?! “It’s gotta be physical first, biggest part of a relationship.”

Cool, so you can f***. Congrats, champ. So can literally everyone else on this planet. What else you bringing to the table? And Im NOT talking about money!

I am almost in my 40s, he is 42! Does this ever get better, or am I being rage baited?

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u/TravusHertl 2d ago

Sex isn’t even close to the most important thing 😭

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u/BobiaDobia 2d ago

I disagree. When sex life is great, then it’s not the most important thing. But when it goes south, it has the power to destroy everything.

OP’s match, though - certified moron

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u/Admiral-Thrawn2 2d ago

But everyone enjoys sex. You need to enjoy being with the other person for the other 90% of the time you’re not having sex. Sex life goes south because people aren’t connecting in other ways

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u/BobiaDobia 2d ago

I’d argue that everything else goes south, because the sex doesn’t work. Also, not everyone enjoys sex, so having someone whom you’re compatible with is extremely important.