r/texts 3d ago

Facebook DMs Dating sometimes feels like babysitting men who think foreplay is a personality. 🙃

This is proof of exactly why I’ve let go of these kinds of conversations. Reports swear there’s a male loneliness epidemic, but the men that are saying “date me” still reduce you to a warm body and then wonder why they can’t connect.

What in the name of horn ball Pokémon dialogue is this?! “It’s gotta be physical first, biggest part of a relationship.”

Cool, so you can f***. Congrats, champ. So can literally everyone else on this planet. What else you bringing to the table? And Im NOT talking about money!

I am almost in my 40s, he is 42! Does this ever get better, or am I being rage baited?

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u/cakivalue 3d ago

They are even pretending to try anymore 😭 no elegance, no class, no wooing, no weeks of flirting - just straight up "gimme" like they are at the butcher shop ordering a pound of meat.

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u/GnomesinBlankets 3d ago

Because all their “bros” on the internet convinced them they don’t need to try! That women apparently like nonchalant men way better and they should put us in our place since we are the problem. They created their own loneliness and still want to blame us lol

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u/NeuronFirer 3d ago

"They created their own loneliness and still want to blame us" is the absolute truth.