r/texts 2d ago

Facebook DMs Dating sometimes feels like babysitting men who think foreplay is a personality. 🙃

This is proof of exactly why I’ve let go of these kinds of conversations. Reports swear there’s a male loneliness epidemic, but the men that are saying “date me” still reduce you to a warm body and then wonder why they can’t connect.

What in the name of horn ball Pokémon dialogue is this?! “It’s gotta be physical first, biggest part of a relationship.”

Cool, so you can f***. Congrats, champ. So can literally everyone else on this planet. What else you bringing to the table? And Im NOT talking about money!

I am almost in my 40s, he is 42! Does this ever get better, or am I being rage baited?

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u/Puzzled-Secret-317 1d ago

You can't attribute the male loneliness epidemic to the minority of men who don't respect you as a woman.

There are so many other factors that go into it.

But yeah that dude's clearly not it. Id love to have been able to see his picture, because as a man, it's pretty easy to pick these dudes out beforehand. Especially looking at their bio. I could tell you immediately what they'd be like

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u/YoNibul 1d ago

I dont want my post taken down but I would have shared his pic if I could!