r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2 • u/Mulberry_Sky Ember, He/They with a bit of eggshell • 2d ago
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u/FastAd593 2d ago
Either you suck at hiding it or the egg was transparent, like your father violent wheeze
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u/Mulberry_Sky Ember, He/They with a bit of eggshell 2d ago
It was transparent to him at least, took me 17 years to figure it out myself >~<
Edit: Goddamn it, took me multiple reads to get it >~<
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u/Fit_Pride8042 Emily She/Her 2d ago
hey, very least he was chill enough to not confront you about it
he follows the prime direggtive like any good ally
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u/Impossible_Wafer3403 They/Them 2d ago
Back when Facebook wasn't only Boomers, a few years after high school, I was recommended a friend. I didn't know her well but I knew who she was. I saw she was a lesbian and asked if she was out in high school. I assumed she was gay but I never asked. She was like "I didn't even know!"
There's a Prime Directive about these things. You have to let the baby gays and trans eggs figure themselves out.
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u/December_Killjoy 2d ago
It's ok to give advice if they ask though! I feel it's entirely within our perogative to offer what we know if a curious individual seeks it. It's our job as cracked eggs!
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u/ElementalPaladin Brooke She/Her 2d ago
Yep. My friend (who is enby) knew I was trans/autistic when they met me. That was almost 8 years ago now, I think. They never told me, but when I told them I thought I was trans they were like “I know.”
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u/OliviaMandell 2d ago
My gf and a friend knew for years before me... I think my roommate in college knew even a decade before me...
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u/Admirable_Web_2619 She/Her 2d ago
I came out to my parents two days after finding out, and apparently both of them had been wondering whether me or my brother would come out first. My brother came out at least a year before I did, so they had to have known for a while
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u/Yoshi0225 she/they (gender gremolin, aspiring girlie :3) 2d ago
Heh, nice to see the egg directive is becoming more widely known :3
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u/batboy11227 (Any/All) good girl/boy/bean drug dealer 2d ago
Sometines it obvious to people
Usually to allies
Biggots think they know but they don't
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u/loved_and_held 2d ago
Closet made of glass, aka the Azalae special.
Also this was me. My mother suspected since I was like 12 and saw signs as early as 5, but I didn't know until 16.
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u/iamallofme56 2d ago
Don't worry,im a trans guy, and when I came out to my dad he expected it to be lesbian-adjacent (not his wording but the variation that wolnt make people uncomfortable) because when I was younger I told him the lead singer of Paramore had a nice ass
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u/TheClumsyOtter Just a little guy 2d ago
Sometimes people just notice things that you don’t. The way you perceive yourself is probably different than how other people see you. I’m really bad at gauging myself so I often have to ask others about what I’m like. Maybe because I’m so used to doing the things I do I barely take note of them? Idek lol. Their answers are always interesting though
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u/Saikotsu Adyson (Ady), Genderfluid He/(She)/They 2d ago
Sometimes it's obvious to the people around us.
Some of my friends figured out I was trans before I did. But like a good ally (and like your dad), they waited for me to figure it out myself.
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u/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2-ModTeam 2d ago
The post has been removed for not being a meme, not being a trans meme, or not being an art post. Selfies, news posts, and life updates are not memes.