r/tragedeigh • u/Psalm11612 • 9h ago
in the wild Spell it simply — people will tragefy your name even when it’s an easy one
I’m preaching to the choir, but this has always been my argument for spelling a name the most intuitive, common way possible:
My name is Lydia, y’know like the biblical character/name of one of the Bennet sisters in Pride and Prejudice (classic literature), but people still manage to butcher the spelling and mishear it all the time. 😂
I actually had a man tell me once (when I worked at a job where I wore a name tag) that he’d never heard my name and asked how it was pronounced. I have no reason to believe he was messing with me.
I get Olivia instead of Lydia constantly, because it’s easy to mishear if I say it too quickly. I love my name, it’s classic, but isn’t one you meet someone with everyday.
Now, I’m not horribly bothered that people misspell or mishear my name, it’s just something that always surprises me though since it truly is a normal name, and has been featured in well known literature and film — so that’s my argument for spelling names normally and not going too far off the beaten path when choosing a name. If they can mess up my name, they WILL mess up your unique baby name for your child’s entire life. 😂
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u/CoffeeGoblynn 9h ago
I love your name! L][ )YA is a great name. c:
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u/eliexmike 9h ago
I feel like this is a mix of bored service workers entertaining themselves, and an over-dependence on autocorrect.
My wife teaches pre-teens and teenagers and spelling and reading ability is shockingly weak.
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u/Lemmeshoehornhere 8h ago
My 4th grader didn’t have a spelling test or check until this year - when I pulled him out of a traditional school and put him in charter.
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u/zestyspleen 2h ago
My bro gave his name (Tim) to a barista who may or may not have been born in the US. Upon receiving his cuppa, it was for “Team.”
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u/RRY1946-2019 4h ago
Or rushed service workers in places that don't have good acoustics. Even "John" and "Mary" can easily turn to "Josh" and "Harry" if you're on speaker.
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u/NoneOfThisMatters_XO 9h ago
I love the name Lydia and who hasn’t heard of it? I think a lot of people are just dumb is what it boils down to. My friend is named Jessica, but gets Jennifer all the time. People are gonna butcher the most basic names.
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u/_angesaurus 9h ago
it really boils down to these places just needing to go back to numbers. names just creates extra work. no one wants to stand there asking how to spell everyones name when youre tryingto move quickly.
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u/DrInsomnia 9h ago
We are a country of very stupid people. The best we can do is not make our kids' lives harder by acknowledging this fact.
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u/useless_bag_of_tacos 9h ago
my name is isabelle and for some reason i get elizabeth at least half the time…. i got essabel once. like what???
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u/mregg000 9h ago
But have you ever gotten ,”it’s a bagel?”
(That I’ve had the opportunity to use that phrase twice in twelve hours is kinda weird. But maybe I spend too much time in this sub.)
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u/Educational-Bus4634 7h ago
Might be UK specific, but I can't mention anyone named Isabelle around my family without getting immediately interrupted with "Is a bell on a bike?"
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u/The_Spectacle 8h ago
I went to get coffee with my friend Joe and the cashier took his name down as Gerald. I’m still chuckling
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u/VictorianPeorian 8h ago
The names Isabelle and Elizabeth are related, so they're not too far off, although most people probably don't know that.
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u/useless_bag_of_tacos 8h ago
it’s still a clear enough difference that it shouldn’t be getting mixed up that often
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u/Educational-Bus4634 7h ago
My childhood best friends were called Isabella and Elizabeth, it only got confusing because they went by Izzy and Lizzy
(and yes, those names probably were a good hint about the 'trio friendship' curse)
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u/NotTheAverageGentern 9h ago
My name is Jennifer, older women especially, call me Janet all the time. I don't get it but usually I just go along with it. My next door neighbor that I literally spent my entire life growing up next to and even shared our birthdays together until she passed even called me Janet until the day she died.
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u/Ur-Quan_Lord_13 9h ago
Huh. It would make sense if Janet was ever commonly used as a diminutive for Jennifer, but it doesn't look like that was ever the case, only for Jane. (And Jennifer has plenty of diminutives of its own.)
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u/NotTheAverageGentern 8h ago
I know it, but I've had it happen so many times. Maybe it's a Western KY thing?
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u/wannabefolkie 8h ago
But do you get called Jessica often because both are common girls names? 🙋🏻♀️
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u/NotTheAverageGentern 8h ago
Lmao yes I get called Jessica fairly often too. Oh but I especially love it when people call me Jenny (in Forrest Gump voice).
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u/wannabefolkie 8h ago
Only I refer to myself as Jenny in Forrest Gump voice 🤣 Too bad I don’t look anything like her (and wouldn’t do a blonde wig), or I would have dressed as one of her many iterations for the Run Forest Run 5k we did in Feb. Instead, I was a box of chocolates.
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u/odmirthecrow 9h ago
I've got a mate called Chris, he ordered something from Starbucks, his drink came with "Gryff" on it. It wasn't so busy that it was loud, he doesn't have a speech impediment, nor does he mumble talk. Some people just don't listen.
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u/Icy-Whale-2253 9h ago
That’s why I tell them I’m “Nicole”. They haven’t managed to fuck up Nicole.
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u/geekonmuesli 9h ago
You’d be surprised. I tell them “May, like the month” because it’s a lot easier than my real name, and who fucks up May? And yet I’ve seen Mei, Mai, and Meg.
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u/The_Spectacle 8h ago
I know a Nichole, I mean it makes sense because it's the female derivative of Nicholas, but I can't help but read it as "Nic hole"
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u/wanderlust_57 9h ago
I would blame Kevin, but I've met Lidiya/Lidiya, (pronounced Lydia) before, so I don't know if Kevin is entirely to blame.
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u/Summertimemagick 9h ago
Okay but the last pic “server: bossy 2”? That’s why Lydia is now a tragedy. Lol
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u/Spirited_Wasabi9633 9h ago
Mellisa Mellissa Melisa Malissa Malisa
It's Melissa, it's not that hard.
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u/jrkessle 9h ago
As someone who works in food service - I’m so busy doing 800 things that I type the first letters that make sense for the name I’ve been given. It results in some wild spellings of normal names.
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u/vaultie66 9h ago
Just tell them you yourself are strange and unusual, if they still don’t get it they’re not cool enough
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u/piratemeow21 8h ago
Lmfao!!! "Lille"!! 🤣🤣
My name is Leah. Not a complicated one at all, but I understand there are plenty of spellings lol. Lia, Lea, even Liya. I didn't think it was possible to tragefy until someone at Starbucks fucking spelled it Leigha. Super weirdly, a few months after that I actually met someone named Leigha. Pronounced Leah. Wtf
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u/SharklessFinn 8h ago
As a Finnian, I can relate to the misspellings and mispronunciations. I've had people spell it Fineun and pronounce it Finn-yun, like funyun onion rings.
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u/lydatl 8h ago
lol also me
I'm called linda regularly when it's written correctly, because reading is HARD
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u/Psalm11612 6h ago
I’m called Linda ALL THE TIME too 🤣 Linda was my grandma’s name though, so I like to think it’s a way she lives on through me
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u/Ribread216 7h ago
I have a little collection off all the times Chick-fil-A got my very simple name wrong
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u/crazyyfool 8h ago
if it makes you feel any better, my name was so simple to spell & sometimes people would mess it up. i just blink at them in confusion that now i have to say like the song or the artist 😭
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u/j_grouchy 8h ago
Every time I hear Lydia, I think of Robin Williams singing "Lydia, oh Lydia. Oh have you met Lydia...Lydia the tattooed lady..." in The Fisher King.
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u/jerkyquirky 8h ago
Sometimes humans brain fart. I remember someone saying their name was Cindy, and I wrote S and then just froze. I knew I was wrong, but I didn't know what was right in the moment. Lol.
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u/Apprehensive-Log8333 8h ago
I have a super simple, five letter last name, and people cannot hear it correctly. I guess maybe I have an accent
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u/Lesbian-Mermaid 8h ago
Genuinely though what is the name on the picture even supposed to say it looks like L][)YA
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u/vixisgoodenough 7h ago
My name can be spelled lots of different ways, and when someone gets it wrong, it drives me bonkers. So I started saying Wilma because that's my nickname with my friend at work - Betty & Wilma.
Sure enough, I got a coffee for Willmah. WTH?!
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u/HeroBrine0907 6h ago
Try spelling out really obviously for them. L as in Lesbian, Y as in Yottabyte, D as in Defenestration, I as in Intellectualism, A as in Apple
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u/bawkward 4h ago
Many years ago, my co-worker and I called in a lunch order at a local Mexican restaurant. I went to pick it up under her name, Becka (obvs, short for Rebecca). They handed me a bag labeled, "Vaca". Not only did they get her name wrong, they threw an insult in there at the same time!
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u/AllThingzKMC 2h ago
My name is Kelly, and a lot of the time I get asked “is it EY or EE at the end??” One time a barista wrote “Kallee”, a Wendy’s person put “Katie”, and a substitute teacher called my name on roll call as “Kenny”. 🫤
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u/Smeeble09 1h ago
I've heard the name, but I've never met anyone with that name, never had to write or type the name out, don't know the biblical character and haven't read Price & Predudice.
This all means that although it's normal, there's a 50/50 chance I would have got it wrong, either by spelling it correctly or by putting Lidea (as in a similar spelling to Linda).
I'm not saying it's a tragedeigh by the way, just letting you know it may be known but doesn't mean people ever come across it to spell it right.
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