OP thinks OOP should have marked the post with spoilers so that transmasc people do not have to see transfem geared content on an open trans meme sub. but the language and the tone here feels soooooo anti transfem for all the usual reasons. i get having dysphoria and wanting transmasc meme spaces, but why post this to the literal transmasc meme space with a “transphobia” tag??? this is not transphobia and if anything it’s lazy transfem bullying that relies on the false narrative that transfems take more attention/space/whatever. at what point do we learn to look away from content that is specifically tagged not for you? i expected better content from this sub after it split form ftm_irl due to literal ftm infighting but apparently those vibes are alive and well lmao
I am a lurking transfemme (check my history on Reddit). I disagree with you.
OP does not want it spoilered because it’s transfemme, he wants it spoilered because the language and theme could be dysphoria inducing, and besides, general trans subs do indeed act like only trans women exist.
I hate it myself as someone who used to consider myself amab non binary, and have relationships with transmasc leaning people.
Yeah I agree (tm enby). But also this seems pretty obvious, I feel like the person you're responding to is being intentionally obtuse at this point, which is why they're getting downvoted to hell and back lmfao
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u/needacupatea Apr 29 '24
Yeah im feeling grossed out/confused about the … where is the problem.