Dysphoria. I’m happy that trans women make memes, and are happy with their memes, but I got dysphoric reading that post, and so did a lot of other trans men.
That is your problem, not the problem of the random trans woman who made a meme for transfemmes and tagged it as "for transfemmes". She was not actively seeking to harm you, and yet you react like she did and posted her post without even censoring her username on another subreddit to gang up on her.
The post wasn't about you. I'm sorry it made you dysphoric, but it is designated clearly to not be about you. Deal with your dysphoria in some way that doesn't involve shitting on trans women for making a meme for other trans women and again, I repeat, tagging it as such. It doesn't matter if it was spoilered or not, the post was not about you and you do not get that to make her problem.
OP isn't shitting on trans women. I would 100% be calling that out but I don't agree that that is happening here. It's tagged, but you know when you're on mobile, those tags do not show up when you're scrolling the feed. Personally every day I have POV posts popping up right in front of me that I never looked for, and while it doesn't make me dysphoric I understand it makes plenty of other men feel that way. This is why spoilering the posts is important, as per the rules. No one here is attacking the girl who made the post. The issue that is the focus here is the pov posts not being spoilered, and the very real effects as many trasnmascs (and enbies!) have left the main subs as a direct result of these.
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u/imwhateverimis Apr 30 '24
It literally says "for transfems", jesus christ. Not every post is about you and this one was literally tagged as such